Alright, thanks to great advice from someone here, I read the book mode one. I totally agree with everything the book says, but I struggle to see how to use it in the real world. For example, it would be ridiculous to walk up to a random girl in the library and say "do you want to have sex." that's the kind of stuff that gets you on the news. But how do you actually use these techniques? Also, how do you get the more desirable girls to like a guy that won't put them on a pedestal, when there are others that will?

thanks for the help.