0.What gives me the right to talk about this?

1.Meaning of title.

2.Application.

4.Why should you even do this?

5.Reversal (Dont skip this part)

What gives me the right to talk about this?

A confession I have to make about myself is I have to much knowledge and not enough action. I can't remember the last time i asked for advice simply because I can give the best advice to myself, it is just a simple matter of fucking applying the advice. I've read too many books, watched too many videos and generally the correlation between knowledge and action is not too positive. But never the less I have experienced enough in the real world to come up with some universal techniques that I want to share with you. Also, when I do post a technique, it is important that you understand WHY it works. Silly would it be if i just said 'do this, it works' instead of 'do this because of this'. So without further rambling as to why I should teach you this, you can decide for yourself at the end of this post.

Meaning of title

So a mistake you might want to avoid when you are approaching is to end the conversation before she does. I have made this mistake countless times where i just keep the conversation going and she has to go, or yesterday i was talking to this girl i approached last week just before her class , we spoke for like 5 minutes but SHE ended it because she had to go to lesson. Imagine how much better it would have been if i just said hey i gotta go now after we built some decent rapport. I'm sure you will find a time in your life where you just stuck around for a little bit too long when you should have CUT OFF.

Application

So you are in a conversation with a chick, it is going well and you thought she might have to go in a bit, but you decided you did not want to be rude so continued to enjoy her company only for a couple of minutes later for he to tell you she has to go somewhere. Now you're just left standing there whilst she has gone. This has happened to me many times, whilst at that point in time i had not mastered this technique, i did tend to use REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY . So once i met this girl during lunch and i thought we would spend it all together, but after like 20 minutes she was like "i have to go to town to buy some shoes now blablabla', so what i said to this was "fair enough, i actually have to meet my friend Jess now as well". I did this whilst looking at my phone. Now this is NOT lying, it sounds like it, but afterwards just go and meet someone else right? Reverse psychology works in many situations, you're basically AGREEING with what she says instead of saying 'oh can you please stay, i thought you were going to stay with me'. Instead you say 'yeh sure, you should definitely do some shopping' with a smile.

So if you are under the impression that she has to leave soon, or she looks like she needs to go, then don't be stupid and conversation rape her to the point where she has to tell you to fuck off, know when to stop. Tell her you have to go somewhere, meet someone or do some work. Generally you should be a BUSY person working towards your FUTURE GOALS anyway, you shouldn't really be wasting time on people not worth your time.

Keep in mind that this technique has a REVERSAL which i will talk about in the end, the reversal for this technique is quite important. It is crucial that you understand the TIMING of this technique, for it might work against you if performed at the wrong time. (see end)

Why should you do this?

You dont want to look like a loser. Girls hate it if a guy approaches them then just rambles on and on. or someone who just sticks to them like glue. Know your limit. It might feel good in the moment, but in the long run you aint doing much good for yourself. Look at it this way : You see a girl at a party that you recognise from somewhere else you you approach and talk for a bit, then she says she has to meet someone else , now youre just left standing there like a dumb motherfucker. If you do end up in this situation by accident, use that reverse psychology method i spoke about earlier. Now compare the above situation with a guy approaching that same girl, but after a few minutes HE has to go meet some other girls, you've basically owned the situation 100% and you leave HER wondering.

Reversal

So now an the important bit. This technique must be used at the right TIME, master the art of timing (Law of power). If you're hanging out with your friends you will obviously not want to CUT them short unless you have to or if you think it is time that could be spent somewhere else to improve your life.

The best way to do this (i have found so far) is when you have small talk with girls and when you do quick approaches. Or you already approached her then you saw her again. If meet up(date), then you have to master the art of timing (future article) and know exactly when to stop. Too early and she will be like wtf, stay too long and you look like a loser, so look for the point in between where it is almost the 'perfect' time to cut it off smoothly. Just do what you agreed on, you wanted coffee? have coffee then that is it, maybe a little something extra to make it spontanous, but there is a limit to that, as there is to everything, dont push it. Dont decide to go bowling, watch a movie and take a fucking golf course on if you agreed on a walk in the park. Of course you want mystery, but doing what i just said is not mysterious, it just shows you had nothing else to spend your day on.

Thanks for reading, this can be applied to a lot of situations, you decide the limits.

peace

EDIT: i dont know why the bold thing doesnt work, i will try to fix it