Day 1

I have met this HB4 (18) (not that ugly, but I have pretty high expections to be honest) on Tinder a few weeks back. I don't quite remember what I said, but I was pretty direct, and told her that we should meet. That night I was driving around with my friend (who was visiting me), so we picked up her and the friend HB51 (18) and drove to our place.

I sat in the back with the HB5 and had a chill chit-chat ala where-you-from-what-do-you-do. I saw that HB4 was interested as she tried to join our conversation a few times.

When we came to the door of the student building, suddenly HB5 wanted to go home. It has probably something to do with me being too enthusiastic about weed (ahem). HB4 on the other hand wanted to come with us, she almost wanted to leave her friend (!), but decided to go home with her friend instead. I took the HB5's number, and they left (I then texted her back and forth, but there wasn't anything special worth mentioning).

Day 1 Mindset: My friend has much longer experience with the Game than me. It was actually he who pushed me to try and invite the girls. I then thought immediately of Julien's "afterparty" and played on it. The plan wasn't even to bring them to my dorm room, because there I had another friend of mine who was also visiting. Even though I live in a small student dorm room and share the WC with my neighbor, my friend suggested that we take the girls to the student living room (usually its empty there).

I felt pretty at easy, wasn't intimidated as usual. Partially I feel it was because the girls weren't my type, but also because I was around my friend who feels very comfortable and doesn't give too much of the fucks. State Transference

Day 1 Takeaways:

1) If you are with your wing, always push each other. State Transference.

2) It doesn't matter where you bring them, be it either the nightclub WC or your expensive apartment. Remember: EVERYTHING IS A REFERENCE EXPERIENCE.

Day 2

The following days I started to chat with HB4 as she seemed more responsive and she agreed to meet on a Wednesday night halfway to my place, and then go to me.

I didn't really do anything there to push and escalate things further when she was at my place. As I said she was very responsive. Smiling, giggling, etc. Plus she wrote to me that she is a virgin. At some point in our Facebook conversation she also wrote "Can't we try 1/1 first?" after I was joking to her about a threesome involving me, her and her russian friend (don't be afraid to be ballsy).

So when we came to my dorm room, we chatted for a bit, then I just took her head and we began making out. Things escalated towards us taking our clothes of, but then she says that she is on her period. I'm not that into having sex while the girl is on the period (yeah I know its natural and shit, but still). I asked when she is done with the period, to which she replied "friday or saturday, but I can do it". I thought that she meant she can blow me. I was too much in my head that night, and didn't feel quite comfortable, but I should have tried to just block my thoughts and put her hand (or head) on my dick. Thanks to Julien for the tip.

Day 2 Mindset

I wasn't quite there. Too much in my head. Couldn't bring myself to be more dominant and get more excited. Since I was too much in my head, it led me to judging myself too harshly.

Day 2 Takeaways:

1) It can be sometimes too easy to be a cheeky cunt when texting since you sit comfortable and type on a screen.

2) When in your head, I think Sasha Daygame's Core Values which are Authenticity, Being in the moment, Having courage, Assuming attraction, Being curious about women, Being playful, and Indifference.

Day 3

It's Friday and I'm getting high with some friends. I start chatting to HB4 and at about 23.30 me and HB4 agree to meet again, then come to my place. I saw that she was just ready from the get to. Since I was high I was in a really talkative mood. After chatting for a bit we started again making out and taking our clothes off. Without getting too much into it, I can tell you that I just wasn't feeling it. I'm not sure if it's because there just wasn't any connection, or a spark between us, or if I have been too much on Pornhub. I should consider /r/NoFap again.

I just told her that I smoked too much that evening and that it's sometimes hard to get it up when high (not actually true). I implied that she can blow me, but she said she has never done it before. As the case was on Day 2, I should have been a little more dominant and put her hand on my dick. Since I didn't want to have sex, we just talked. The conversation was pretty fun, and I had a blast. Then I got her high, and after a few minutes she decides to go home. She doesn't quite know the road, so I go with her halfway.

Day 3 Mindset

I wasn't that harsh on myself like I was on Day 2. Since I wasn't in the mood for sex with her I still took the opportunity to show her a good time. And have fun while doing it. Sex should never be the final destination. But it doesn't mean that you shouldn't escalate or lead!

Day 3 Takeaways:

1) Don't be hard on yourself, but still lead and escalate.

2) If the sex is not an option, have fun! Show her your current favorite song or invite her to indulge in your recreational drug of choice.

3) Hand/head on the dick!

1 When I say HB5 I mean totally average, based on looks. I know some of the guys in the community are hostile towards using too much of the pickup lingo. But in order to write good FRs where we can learn both from ourselves and from each other, I think it's necessary to give an estimate of the girls' "attractiveness level", even though the 1-10 rating is very much subjective. One's 5 can easily be someone else's 7.

Hope this FR will be of some help to you. Feel free to tell me what I could do better, both when it comes to writing good FRs and doing great pickup.