The Comfortable Life of the Undersexed Male (Why Most Guys Won't Get A Lot of Pussy)

2015-03-19T21:37:41+00:00

Sigh, so much truth in this. I'm so sadly comfortable and I know it. I've said it about my career, about my sex life (last time was two weeks ago), my house, etc... I'm going back to graduate school because I don't know what else to do, I need external motivation. My therapist has helped me considerably but I don't know. Sometimes I think I need to move but I love my friends and where I live. Most of my passions and good ideas fizzle out after a week or two. I don't understand. The only thing I can manage to do regularly is go to the gym 4x a week and mountain bike...and drink beer.

I say I want to be with women who are sexually passionate but if I'm not passionate about anything then that's definitely NOT going to happen.

Turlast · 2015-03-19T23:06:05+00:00

I feel like this blog was talking to me. I don't get girls. I want to change that...but I'm not sure I'm willing to do everything it takes. I want to be willing to go outside of my comfort zone and make it happen, but it seems like an impossible goal for someone like me. I hate feeling like this.

WhosCountin · 2015-03-20T00:34:59+00:00

This is totally how I am... When I'm not regularly tripping. Taking acid every couple of weeks gives me perspective and if I've become complacent or stagnant it's instantly apparent and I kick myself back into gear. Started taking a Python coding course last time I dropped. There was a year there where I had no supply, and the mental hole I fell into after a while was awful. I had moved and started a new better job, so I wasn't really conscious of the lack of psychedelics, but as soon as I used them again it was like waking up and remembering "oh yeah, not being deeply depressed is awesome". After noticing the pattern, I did some research and my experience fits pretty directly with the literature on psychedelics mitigating some types of depression by quieting down the part of your brain that makes entrenched connections.

So... There's that. Probably won't help 99% of people, but if you have the same imbalances as me it might help!

Title	The Comfortable Life of the Undersexed Male (Why Most Guys Won't Get A Lot of Pussy)
Author	Midnight_in_Seattle
Upvotes	29
Comments	3
Date	March 19, 2015 6:27 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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