Hey guys, I was at a way too loud club a few minutes ago (typing this in the train home) and I was chatting outside where we could hear each other with this lovely fun girl.

I was flirting, saying everything I want to say and kino all the way. This looks like there's nothing wrong, but there is. I met her already last year at some festival where I K-cosed her and I'm totally not interested in her anymore.

I can be the guy I am when there's no risk , but they introduced me to a friend of them who was really fucking hot and I shut down. I know it's because of outcome indepence and all that shit but I just couldn't do it.

She was definitely into me but I just don't know how to act. I fucking blew it. This sounds like oneitis but I did the exact same thing with other girls this night.

The good side of this story is that this was my first time going out solo and it went way better than expected. Had a lot of fun with all the people I approached but nothing sexual. I really missed a wingman though.

So I need some advice, I have almost no AA and have great conversations, but I just can't turn it sexual yet. The same with the dance floor, I love to dance but I just dont act on girls just staring at me, waiting for me to approach.

Im sorry if this wall of text is a bunch of crap, I'm still tipsy. I hope someone can give me some tips on my sexual anxiety.

For context, im 19 years old, just read "Models" and im virgin af