Hey guys,

For clarity, I'm a 19y/o male.

It was near closing time at the local gym where I frequently work out and we could play our own music through the sound system because there were barely any people left.

A friend of mine put on teach me how to dougie and we started doing the dougie.

Then this girl I didn't know yet was watching us having fun. She asked me if I liked dancing. Yes I do, esp hip hop. She tells me she does hip hop dancing and is switching to a new dance school in a nearby city. Really a coincidence because I was looking for a school for hip hop.

Anyway, skip forward a week and I see her again at the gym. I ask about her new dance school. She tells me she will start next wednesday and asks if I want to join.

Sure I do, sounds like fun. I tell her that I will check if I have nothing on my agenda for coming wednesday and talk about it after my work out.

I never noticed this girl before. Even though she has been going to the same gym for two years. I actually want to know this girl better then only going to the same dance school. Which is not just an excuse to hang out with her. I was actually searching for one.

My question/thing I need advice on; Should I ask before we go to the dance school if she wants to grab a coffee/drink after the dancing so I show I want more than only the dancing or should I wait 'till after the dancing, see how it went and work from there? I don't really care about it but some girls say I go way too fast, like I barely know them and ask them if they want to hang out. I don't want to have this happen now with this girl.

I haven't had so many dates yet and every piece of advice is welcome.

Thanks in advance!

PS. I'm not natively English, please tell me about my errors in grammar so I can learn ;)