Things you should and shouldn't do on the first date.

Darkly_Optimistic · 2015-02-17T17:41:39+00:00

Don't talk about R.A.P.E which is Religion, Abortion, Politics, or Exes. Also don't talk about rape either

MetalPUA · 2015-02-17T12:39:02+00:00

The purpose of the first date is to escalate physically as well as establish an emotional connection via conversation. So start with light kino and try to work your way up to the kiss before the end of the date. And beyond just playful banter you should get to know as much about each other as you can. When in doubt about conversation subjects, remember F.O.R.D.: Family, Occupation, Recreation, and Dreams.

I'd recommend taking her 2-3 different places on the first date instead of just a single place, and spend about an hour at each place. This creates the illusion that she's spent more time with you than she actually has. One example of a solid date might be a walk in the park, followed by a round of bowling, and you end with drinks at the pub. Ideally, the final stop on your date should be near your place or hers so you can take the date there if things are going exceptionally well.

As a general rule, never take a girl to a movie on your first or second date. They're cliche, they don't allow for conversation, physical contact is awkward, and so you have to sit next to each other in awkward silence for a couple of hours. Dinner dates should also be avoided at first; eating a meal interrupts conversation, and some women are self-conscious about eating in front of a man they don't know very well.

gvcool2 · 2015-02-17T13:34:58+00:00

Take her to ikea 1st...best advice you'll ever get

joshsway · 2015-02-17T17:57:25+00:00

I write a decent amount about first dates, such as: https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/7-dating-hacks-for-your-first-date and also https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/good-first-date-routine-locations

youngpua · 2015-02-17T13:33:08+00:00

Do: * make moves and be a leader * act like she's already your girlfriend * make things fun, light hearted, and sexual

Don't: * try to impress her * pretend to be something you're not * buy her a drink if the purpose is to woo her more

Luke631 · 2015-02-17T18:08:51+00:00

Things to do:

HAVE FUN.

Things not to do:

TRY TO "GET" HER.

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profit.

askaraboz · 2015-02-17T21:16:58+00:00

Do not think about what SHE WANTS when choosing the venue or at any point in the date. You propose a place that YOU like and feel comfortable in.

I prefer a bar that is next to another bar with a dance floor. Get a couple of drinks at the first place and then move next door (change of venue) and get her to dance with you. That is the easiest way to get physical with a girl. And you don't even have to know how to dance. I don't care what music is playing I just grab a girl at the waste and press them against my body and they do the rest. They always do because feminine nature is to follow and masculine is to lead.

Propose a meeting time that's pretty late for a date like 10 p.m. and see what she says. If she agrees it's a good thing. It means your date most likely will stretch into the night which is always good.

Talk to people around you be that other patrons or stuff to show that you're sociable and that you don't give a fuck about how that date goes. You're going to have fun regardless of the outcome.

That's all I can think of off the top of my head. Almost forgot. Take them to places where you know the bouncers (especially the ones that man the entrance). I can't describe what an impression it makes on women when you can get into a venue without waiting in line. If you don't know any bouncers get to know them. I just make it a point to talk to them. Know that they make very little money - they make a living off tips.

Title	Things you should and shouldn't do on the first date.
Author	Ridley_Confirmed
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	February 17, 2015 11:54 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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