To those new to seducing, how do you deal with rejection?

Mouthpiece · 2015-05-07T15:42:38+00:00

How do you deal with rejection? Seek it out. Embrace it. If you're not getting rejections, then you're not putting yourself out there enough.

2015-05-07T15:23:23+00:00

I can't answer the first part of your question but I can answer the second.

Holding eye contact and smiling are the biggest indicators that she is interested. If you see those two you're definitely in.

I have a body language book that I will link to you if I can find it. Its very informative on this sort of topic.

Edit: Found the link but its messed up. The book you should get is "The Definitive Book of Body Language".

hugepenis · 2015-05-07T22:30:30+00:00

You don't take rejection personally. People have enough going on in their lives for you to jump to the conclusion that you were rejected due to you being you. So if I were you, I would just look at it like this isn't a good time for them for whatever reason, and then go talk to another girl.

Gliste · 2015-05-07T19:26:12+00:00

Lol why are you asking people new to it?

So, realize this about rejectsion:

I, and others who get laid, get rejected a lot still.

Babe Ruth is the all time leader in strikeouts.

Kobe Bryant is the all time leader in missed shots.

She could really have a boyfriend. She could be on her period and crabby because of it. She could be having a shit day. She could have already been hit on or catcalled by numerous douchebags rather recently.

So there's all those reasons that she might reject you that you have no control or influence on.

Reasons that might involve you like: not saying the right things for the situation, bad style, bad body language, bad appearance, etc. Are all very much fixable things.

So yeah. It's like a coin flip for if it's even about you or not. And if it is about you, it's not really about you, it's about the way your presenting yourself at that particular moment of time. It's not personal.

Rejection is nothing.

You "deal with it" by mentally shrugging your shoulders, moving on, and forgetting about it because you quickly see another good looking girl.

CaliBboy · 2015-05-07T20:14:01+00:00

And when talking to a girl, how do you know she's interested?

Eye contact and body language.

Title	To those new to seducing, how do you deal with rejection?
Author	Gliste
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	May 7, 2015 2:58 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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