How do you guys psych yourself up before going out?

johnnyboyfart · 2015-05-11T10:13:59+00:00

i'll tell you how:

you have to start having a conversation with the first person you see as soon as you get out into the world.

davidjascha · 2015-05-11T05:57:00+00:00

Don't 'psych yourself up' before you go out.

What is it that you want to feel?

Awesome and self-confident? As in "empty-pumped-up-state-which-goes-away-after-two-hours", that state that makes girls kiss you within a minute and then realize that you have nothing behind your energetic facade?

Or did you plan on feeling actually grounded, actually confident, in yourself--not your state--and possibly creating a deep connection with the lady, able to keep the mood up all night?

If the latter was what you actually wanted, I'd advise you to just go into the club, hang around for 2 hours if it takes that long, and just stand around with your buddies, have a chat, laugh, drink some water--until you're deeply relaxed in the atmosphere, and you cannot help it but take action to get yourself over your boredom.

P.S. I tested loud music before, yelling, approaching the first people I saw, doing affirmations, running to the nightclub. All of it resulted in the state I described at first.

Title	How do you guys psych yourself up before going out?
Author	IRedditbe4
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	May 11, 2015 5:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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