How to talk to girls at raves/music festivals?

recyclablebantha · 2015-05-23T12:50:53+00:00

Do you just go up to her and then start talking about the things that are going on around you guys or just anything.

Think about where you are, man. If you're at a rave, in particular, what is the activity of the venue? It's about loud music and dancing. So why then, would you put yourself at a disadvantage by interrupting her good time by asking her to strain to listen to some random dude she doesn't know? That's akin to walking up to some dude at a LAN party who's in the middle of a match, and asking them to pull off their headphones and listen to you.

Instead, what you should do is open them non-verbally. Eye contact is a powerful tool to pre-screen and combined with facial expressions, you can open with it too. Dancing is another useful tool: body language is so useful.

YOUNG_G0D · 2015-05-23T13:16:14+00:00

Your goal shouldn't be to talk to women at raves. Just go and enjoy yourself, man. If women see you having a good time while you're there, they might just end up approaching you or try to get your attention.

Scumbag30 · 2015-05-24T01:10:14+00:00

I'm pretty new to seddit and the game but at a festival today I made myself approach about 7 or 8 women, forcing myself to not fear rejection. I often said "hi, you're cute" with a smile or "are you having a good time?" And while I could sense attraction in many of them they all had fucking boyfriends. I smiled and moved on, no hard feelings. Anyway I was just feeling good and enjoying myself and a girl then approached me later on, I kissed her within 10 seconds. Went straight in and she was game. Girls at festivals or raves are either a) high on mdma so very receptive to a conversation, especially with kino. Or b) generally having a good time. Talk to them, have fun!

Siryummy · 2015-05-23T17:23:10+00:00

I talk to lots of girls at raves. Mostly of the time you don't want to talk to the girls actually in the crowd. They'll be sociable but they're more interested in the music and dancing at the moment than talking to a random dude.

The girls hanging out on the outer edges of the crowd and near the bars are the ones you want to go for. They're usually the ones that are down to talk and just meet new people

imaginationliveshere · 2015-05-23T06:28:31+00:00

Just ask her what seems suitable at the time! If anything, ask how she is enjoying the music, ya know? Breaking the ice is the toughest part.

Cunderthunt2113 · 2015-05-23T07:14:22+00:00

From personal experience. I really find that trading a kandi single is a great way to introduce yourself. Most girls will be happy to trade with you. And if they don't have any, just insist that they have it. Then from there ask them about there EDM life. Like, "Who's your favorite DJ?", or "Who are you most excited to see?" After talking for a bit ask if she would like to dance. And then proceeded to have a great time!

Title	How to talk to girls at raves/music festivals?
Author	THEFINALRELAPSEfr
Upvotes	16
Comments	6
Date	May 23, 2015 6:20 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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