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[–]TonyDAbsolute 10 points11 points12 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want to hold a girl's hand, you just hold your hand out palm up. When she places her hand, or hands in yours, you hold them. Give no reason, no explanation. I've done it on my bootcamps a hundred times. It's actually one of my exercises. Try it.
And don't look at your hands when you do it. Assume she will comply. It's basically a compliance test.
[–]dangarooo 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just gracefully slide your hand into hers when you're walking side by side. There's no need for games or tricks.
Maybe it's just me but holding hands conveys you are interested in becoming a couple. If I'm with a girl that I'm only trying to get physical with and not emotionally involved, I will not hold her hand.
[–]RowdyOtis 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thumb war
[–]acetokyo 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I take her hand to look at an accessory or a ring and don't let go and continue the conversation else where.
[–]silencemurder 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The classic one is analyzing her hand-lines to predict her future lol. Another thing you could do is going to another location while leading her with your hand. Last one I can think of is saying your hands are cold - want to feel?
There are tons of ways to hold a girls hand I suppose. Just try to improvise in the moment and not do too much research up front. Good luck!
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