So I finally figured out how my inner game works and that I'm just making excuses at this point.

I want to start approaching girls and want some advice(specifically for gym situation since I see quite a few, possibly interested, girls there):

Should I wait till I have an 'excuse', like doing an exercise next to them?

Should I man the Fuck up and start approaching girls regardless of what people might think about me(specifically coming over as needy to the girl!)?

Or should I go out more and try to have fun with girls while learning to be outcome independent(and not shitting where I eat if that's considered to be bad)?

Or should I listen to your amazing advices, you sexy beasts of reddit?