I'd read The Game and taken a look through most of the seduction material out there, books, videos, RSD, the Davids, Carlos Xuma, etc. I couldn't do much with it, It was more like they told you what they saw from where they were, but didn't tell you how to get there. Anyway, I did finally stumble upon the one resource that did work.

Remember The Secret? The book about manifesting what you desire? It is bullshit, but something about it isn't. Visualizing what you want and changing your self image isn't hokey spiritual stuff, it's cold hard science, as scientific as math. Maxwell Maltz set it off in the 1960's, you can read Psycho Cybernetics if you want to but it's not necessary. The book you want is called Secrets Everyone Should Know to Become Immediately Successful With Women, excuse any corniness. The book tells the guy's story of how he discovered visualization and used it to become the way he wanted. My story is I read the book when I was 19, and a virgin, and I really needed to get laid, lest I be a loser in my mind. I started visualizing for a half hour a day, and it as really tough at the beginning. Your brain just doesn't let you have it that easy. But day after day, I could visualize sharper, "feel" it more, and eventually I could see it in my mind. They talk about "mental movies", this was it. I would imagine me being good with girls, acting cool, talking to them, being in control, having fun, that irresistible smirk, slight cockiness. I went to an hour a day, and after 60 days of this, I headed back to college.

I had never gotten a girl's shirt off, I'd never been on a date. The first class I went to I talked to a girl casually, and so easily asked for her number. No Nervousness, not too obvious about it. It was automatic. I wasn't excited, there was nothing about it that was other than a normal experience. I didn't even feel like a pimp doing it. Your brain really takes care of 95% of it. A week later I was on a date with a different girl, three weeks later I was having sex with her as my gf. You will not believe it, it can be so automatic, really give this a shot, you don't know what you're missing.