For the past month I've been scared to talk about this.

It's a bit raw and close to the heart. But in the words of legendary writer Neil Gaiman:

"The moment that you feel that, just possibly, you’re walking down the street naked, exposing too much of your heart and your mind and what exists on the inside, showing too much of yourself. That’s the moment you may be starting to get it right."

So I'm gonna blast my resistance out of the water and share my quick story.

2013 - 2014

YEAAAHHH!! Graduated from University! Fuck Yeah! Ready to take on the world and enter the hall of heroes! Also finally I'll be able to seriously up my game. Who's ready to rock!

Except...

The world punched me in the face.

All those business ideas? Didn't work.

Decided to chase getting a job...oh wait they either sucked, or they kept rejecting me. No thanks.

Oh and my game. Crashed. Like seriously crashed and burned.

No new women in my life. My female friends started ignoring me. (Like even in social situations), and approach anxiety came to a whole new level in my mind.

Those two years seriously sucked ass.

Past 2 months

What is this? I'm not even doing anything and all these girls are noticing me.

I've had 3 booty calls with no effort on my part, and my single female friends are slyly asking about my dating life.

(That can either be an IOI for them or for their friends. Women are funny that way).

Oh and the number of IOI's I've been getting on a daily basis is unreal.

So What changed?

Simple. I had a purpose.

I'm now a man going somewhere. Through some business savvy I got a mentor 2 months ago and now we're working on a business together which is gonna earn some serious $$$ in a few months.

And it's not like I'm some douche who shares this with girls "Oh yeah, I'm a high flying entrepreneur yeaahhh". It may come up in conversation, but talking about our jobs sucks. Conversation is usually about more fun stuff.

What I'm trying to say is it's been unconscious. When you have a purpose with your life, women seem to sense that on an innate level. And some of them are attracted to it.

Don't try and become confident. That'll come naturally. Try and be a man of purpose.

And your game will skyrocket.