Now a bit more comprehensive. As an unattractive male, I found that approaching girls in pubs or nightclubs will never work for me since girl won't be/ are not too excited about socializing with a guy that no other girl find attractive, I mean a guy with no social value (at least for the first sight, physical appearance). Basically, in my beliefs and experience, an ugly man can only attract women when he actually invests quite some time knowing them. Which leads to this - the only real way for an unattractive guy to date an attractive female is to get to know her through his social circle, in some semi forced interaction ( no one will reject a conversation with a person that one or one's friends are well familiar with)

Do you think this is true ? Why?