I've always been a relationship kind of guy but never had any one night stands. Last night I went to a bar with a group of coworkers/friends. There were also some people in our group that I've never met. I was particularly attracted to one of the new girls in the group, lets call her L.

I know from experience and reading that I shouldn't focus on one girl, so I was talking to everyone and trying to have a good time. When I talked to L though I made sure to be flirty (teasing her, etc.) and initiated physical touch as soon as possible (ex: touch her waist when saying something to her).

Eventually me and L are talking one on one and I up my kino game. I'm putting my arm around her, holding her hands, and I think I kissed her at one point. I say something along the lines of "Let's go to a place where we can have a more private conversation" and we leave the bar. I was thinking of taking us to another bar with dancing. She said we should go back to her place instead. I knew I was in.

We took a cab to her place. I couldn't get it up due to being drunk or performance anxiety, so we went to sleep. Tried again in the morning and still wasn't happening so we just did oral. I got her number and left after that.

Questions:

  1. What is morning etiquette of a one night stand?

  2. Anyone else have trouble getting it up sometimes?

  3. Is it kosher to go into details of sexy-time in this subreddit or nah?