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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What type of beta texts a girl to come over to his place. That is beta as fuck man don't do it, unless you have already sealed the deal. Like they say look at the friend zone how long have you known her, what can you offer? you already teach her how to lift for free, she is already getting your entire social value, I don't mean to insult you teaching her for free I go to the gym with my friends and we always help each other out with our form. Best thing you can do is flirt with her after and say do you want to grab something to eat, do you both change after a workout if not you probably want to have something really casual like a fast food going to a bar or lounge all sweaty your begging yourself to get rejected. In pickup you can't get every girl sometimes you just don't click, its not your fault for me it always is usually I'm picky, but as long as you convey that your interested in her besides being friends the worst that can happen is you don't have to baby sit her at the gym anymore and be a orbiter.
[–]MongaBonga[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What type of beta texts a girl to come over to his place. That is beta as fuck man don't do it
Thanks for this. I consider myself a beta guy but I'm trying to move up the ranks to become alpha. I just have a hard time striking a balance between being alpha and being not rude or asshole-ish. I tend to have a habit of being too nice and doing favors for people.
In the gym, I don't go out of my way too much for her. I do my normal workout and she jumps in whenever I'm resting. During my rest period, I critique her form and give pointers (it's not like I have anything better to do for those 1-2 minutes). I definitely don't follow her around and I'm always the one deciding what exercise we're doing next and how long we'll be doing it for. I don't change my workout for her, instead she does my workout.
as long as you convey that your interested in her besides being friends the worst that can happen is you don't have to baby sit her at the gym anymore and be a orbiter.
Let's say it doesn't work out. How do I stop going to the gym with her without coming off as a rude asshole who was only in it for getting into her pants?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
2.When your at the gym make sure you correct her form often but not so much that your feeling her up, when you correct her form be blunt say your not sticking your ass out enough, say stick out your chest more touch her back and her stomach don't touch her ass or breasts that's private just general areas and get the kino so she gets used to your touch.
3.Who cares if it doesn't work out you don't lose shit, its not like she helped you out when you worked out at the gym, its honestly only awkward if you think/make it awkward. Even if she rejects your advances you can still be gym partners. Only a needy guy who doesn't get any would say "either you sleep with me or I wont teach you how to lift". You can still teach her how to lift but just be friends then nothing changed honestly.
Update me on how it goes just msg me.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going to the gym together isn't a date and im sure she doesn't see it as such. You need to show her you are interested and up the flirting so you can ask her out for drinks at another time. From there, you can escalate and try to get her to your house.
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