Thoughts about masturbation

redpilltree · 2014-03-18T03:13:34+00:00

I personally don't like masturbation as I see it as a waste of my time and energy.

That said, Masturbation isn't a problem, addiction is.

In my opinion, my overall health improves with abstaining from masturbation.

When I first found TRP I had a nice guy frame I held around girls, and not masturbating made it easier to have more of an alpha frame.

Eventually, I'll blow my load and my mind feels clear, I feel normal, but I feel like I lose that drive to get shit done.

Abstaining from masturbation directly/indirectly clearly was more beneficial to you, yet you gave in to impulse.

I would rather not masturbate at all, not because I feel it's wrong or anything, but personally I value my own semen and would rather not be wasting my life liquid throwing it around everywhere for no purpose.

Your going to be ejaculating in a condom or on the girl or in her mouth/ass, even if you ejaculate in her pussy, birth control takes away any intention you had. Using your argument you would never ejaculate unless it was for the explicit purpose of making babies.

Abstaining was clearly more beneficial to you, so abstain.

RedBigMan · 2014-03-18T03:47:42+00:00

This gets asked a lot...

Unless you are masturbating with a multiple times a day frequency on a regular basis you're fine. You wont go blind or it wont fall off.

That said if you do wish to indulge in masturbation then scientifically the optimal way to do so is to basically fap once a week. This is because after cumming your Testosterone levels steadily increase over a period of 7-8 days then go back to baseline.

Also time your fap sessions for times when you dont need to get any shit done (IE. Before bedtime or on the weekend) not like in the morning before your workout routine.

RedSunBlue · 2014-03-18T05:38:38+00:00

Tell yourself that you can only masturbate after you accomplish something that gets you closer to your goals.

Example:

Only after a gym session
Only after thoroughly completing your studies
Only after messaging all the girls you met last night

etc.

This is how you channel your sex drive to get things done.

kempff · 2014-03-18T03:17:38+00:00

My personal opinion is that it's a pathetic indulgence in self-consolation. I don't see how it serves any other function.

Someone once said, "Rule yourself and you will rule the world". I agree. I think it's a good thing you're eliminating masturbation from your daily routine. I want to hear more about how your thinking and your feeling are changing because of it.

deepthrill · 2014-03-18T12:39:36+00:00

You can use it to your advantage. Work on practicing ejaculatory control, kegels, tantric exercises. Can be used for self improvement not just pleasure. Manofvigor.com has a lot of good info on this.

[deleted] · 2014-03-18T13:13:56+00:00

Your semen's going to die anyways. Unless you donate it or something.

asd1100 · 2014-03-18T19:36:20+00:00

personally I value my own semen and would rather not be wasting my life liquid throwing it around everywhere

keep it bottled in until you find a uterus that values it more

seriously, once a week, no lights no porn after a hard workout and your golden(exceptions allowed before learning for a test)

Title	Thoughts about masturbation
Author	VanillaMorganFreeman
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	March 18, 2014 2:10 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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