Wednesday i was out with some friends and went home (to her place) with this friend of a female friend of me. She threw me out in the middle of the night because its one of her "rules" that nobody sleeps over who she doesnt know well. Side story: One of her "rules" is also to take noone home with her. When i was on my way home she apologized for her behavior. Next day i told her id give her a chance to make it up to me. I told her id come over and we could cook smth. She said she doesnt like that for a "first" date to have someone at her place and that she would prefer to go to a café or smth. I dont know how to respond. I dont want to meet under her conditions but since she made it very clear that i can not come over i cant insist on that. Im not a native speaker so dont judge me for my writing skills.