This might be alittle wall of text'ish but i'll make a TL;DR in the bottom.

So i moved last summer to a dorm with about 12 other people, long story short there was a girl who seemed pretty cool though i didn't really do anything about seeing as i was with someone else at the time.

The person i was seeing and I then broke up and i started talking to the girl from my dorm, eventually ''hooking up'' with her late January (didn't have sex).

Since then it's been a pretty casual relationship from her part, and me being really interested. I don't know what it is, but this one seems different from all the others. So basically we spent alot of time together doing classic couples stuff but without defining anything. Which was kinda nice trying seeing as my previous relationships have been really shortterm.

So about 3 weeks ago she starts acting wierd around me, i discover that it's a personal issue and it does go away again.

The problem is, about a week ago she got a cat, i don't really mind pets so i was cool with that, but when i suggested i came up and slept with her, she turned me down, stating that the cat needed to be safe in the environment before she'd let me sleep over.

Now, over a week ago the cat moved in, shes still not keen on the idea of me coming up, and also seems to be less interested. So my question is, how do i get myself back into the spotlight? Should i just stop seeing her?

Important info: We havn't had sex yet and yes that bothers me Were both around 20

TL;DR

After the girl im currently seeing got a cat iv'e pushed into 2nd priority and cannot seem to get back into the attention zone, despite suggesting we spend time together during nights and whatnot, what should i do?