Girl wants to go out of her way to see me but says no hooking up

AAtoPUA · 2015-07-31T11:13:30+00:00

It's the ASD, you should make her feel comfortable with your touch once she gets to your house and try to kino escalate without making her uncomfortable. If she really wants to visit you while living 3 hours away, there's a part of her that also wants to have sex.

katalis · 2015-07-31T11:17:39+00:00

Exposing directly the hook up intention seems to have scared her. You know when you are trying to get a f-close and you hardly ever mention you are going to fuck? This is quite similar. Besides the fact that she has told you: she doesn't want to feel used. That seems to me that she has had a rough life, at least in matters of sex. I would not like if someone would want to see me only for my body, as a piece of meat. She already know you are gonna have sex, but if you mention it directly, it's... Tough. It's your job to make her feel comfortable and safe, and if you do that correctly, I think everything will go smoothly.

Title	Girl wants to go out of her way to see me but says no hooking up
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Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	July 31, 2015 11:08 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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