Seddit how do i keep/make friends,

cryogenics12 · 2015-08-04T00:44:43+00:00

What are your interests and hobbies? Programming? Art? Guitar? Sports?

Find some clubs that involve just doing stuff with people. At first, just focus on doing stuff with people. Over time, there's a good chance some of them will become friends

Nofap_TH1356 · 2015-08-04T01:56:47+00:00

You've said in another comment here that your school doesn't offer any club type activities and you don't have any real hobbies. However, I did see you mention a gym. Go there, talk to people, because that's something that you do. Take gym seriously, and you'll get some good results that will make girls more attracted to you. Guys will respect you more too if you're not just that one scrawny kid. So for now, focus on your time at the gym and making the very best of it, especially socializing with people there.

As for the lack of hobbies, explore until you find something that you like. Maybe try out some musical instruments if you can afford it (just cheap ones at first). Try programming (codecademy is a good resource online), or maybe go to a library if you enjoy reading - I'm sure you can meet people there. Just be sure that whatever it is that you like doing, you make it a part of you and be passionate about it, people love seeing that passion.

And the way I see it, you've got a pretty good situation right now. You're 15, in school, and unsure of what you like. That means you can socialize with classmates, and experiment with things that will open up doorways for you. Another thing I notice is that you want change. You've noticed something that you don't like, and are asking for help, and that's a huge step in the right direction. Try to work on improving yourself (/r/fitness, /r/malefashionadvice, /r/malehairadvice, and this sub), and people will definitely notice you. And most importantly, just put yourself out there and have fun with high school. Good luck dude!

Title	Seddit how do i keep/make friends,
Author	Skippy244
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 4, 2015 12:41 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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