Tried calling a girl to set up a date after asking her out, but haven't heard from her, any advice?

2015-08-09T22:22:53+00:00

Any advice for me Seddit? What would be a good way to ask her again?

As a general rule...

"When a woman intentionally makes you wait for sex, you are not her highest priority. A woman who wants to fuck you will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the country, crawl under barbwire, climb in through your second story bedroom window, fuck the shit out of you and wait patiently inside your closet if your wife comes home early from work – women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck."

-Rollo Tomassi

Make sure that's ingrained in your brain. A woman's actions will tell you much more than her words ever will. If she's flaking, you're most likely not a priority for her, no matter how much you'd like to think you are.

Generally, I'll try again if I think there is a legit excuse and if I'm not too annoyed (max 3 tries). But don't get your hopes high, it's very rare for a woman who likes you to flake on you.

FriedTofu-Sun · 2015-08-09T22:24:04+00:00

Number one she most likely did not hear the voice mail personally i do not leave a message instead i send a text messege. So send a text messge and see whats hapeening if she does not respond to that then give up on her. She may have someone else or something else. Next time in this situation you should ask the girl for coffee or ice cream after class

ResistingTemptation · 2015-08-09T22:46:34+00:00

Just send her one text tomorrow afternoon saying you hope she got your voicemail and if not would she like to meet up this week.

Just leave it like that. If she responds, great. If not, don't send her any more messages. She will have received your text with 99.9% certainty.

I did this a few weeks ago. Girl didn't reply for like 3 days. Turns out she was in hospital. We're now meeting on Tuesday. If I had blown up her phone..I would've looked needy as fuck. She was interested; but I understand I wasn't her priority when she's throwing up all over the place lol.

So just give her the benefit of the doubt. One more text. Then leave it open-ended and forget about her. If she's interested, she'll reply.

Title	Tried calling a girl to set up a date after asking her out, but haven't heard from her, any advice?
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Date	August 9, 2015 10:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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