I know this isnt a typical post, and I'm not even sure if it should go here but this subreddit helped me become a better person before, and I'm hoping it can help me again. Going to throw in some pre tense, might help you guys help me and hopefully venting a little will help me.

I first found this subreddit a few years ago after a bad breakup (lets call her Y). It helped me move on and become a better man. That was 3-4 years ago. For about two of those years I was doing amazing, I got her back for a while for some fun but she dated a new guy, which was fine. Then I met 'her' (lets call her S). It was amazing right off the bat, except she had just turned 18 and was 7 years younger than me. She got scared about getting into a serious relationship cause she felt like she could be with me forever and blah blah blah and we were only dating for 1-2 months. Anyway, I was crushed. I knew I'd be fine but it was the worst feeling ever, and its when everything started going down hill. After S I ended up reconnecting with Y, just as friends because she had a bf. We slept together but tried to stay friends but it didnt work. Too much history. Then after that I ended up with a friend (we'll call her L) that didnt end well either, and a few months later there was a girl M. Also didnt go well. After that I started putting on weight, I went bald and dropped out of uni. Meanwhile, Y is married (to the guy she cheated on with me with) with a baby, S is in a serious relationship, L blocked for some reason after she cheated on a bf of hers (wasnt with me) but now has a new bf and theyre both super happy, and M and I had a fight a few months back and haven't spoken. After so many of these crash and burn relationships, and hearing that they're all do well and are happy etc I'm hear at 3am being depressed and stalking their profiles.

I'm 27, bald, chubby, crooked teeth, middle of moving houses, no career (decided to try finish my uni degree) and no idea how to move foward. I've done it before, and this subreddit was a huge help in helping me become someone I was proud to be and someone who could attract gorgeous women way beyond my reach looks wise, but I've lost him.

I've done it before, so I can do it again... but I don't know how. Can you guys help me be happy and successful with women again? It's getting super lonely and I can't take it anymore... I'm so confused and don't know where to begin or who I am.