Okay Reddit, long time lurker and occasional poster here, using a throwaway for now. This is going to be a long one, I suggest not TL;DRing!

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So, a little background on myself, I [26M good-looking] have been lurking on the Seduction forums for a while. I’ve struggling with a crippling condition known as OCD Anxiety (along with Tourette and Attention Deficit Disorder, but I’ve mostly grown out of this).

I have never had a girlfriend, I’ve never had sex with anyone except prostitutes in Thailand, and I am the most socially tense person when I am around anyone of the opposite sex, and high-status men as well. I was also obsessed with porn so much that I actually ended up injuring my penis one time because I was fapping so frequently. (NoFap? Lol)

So onto my theory…

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Now, I don’t want to come off as pessimistic, only realistic, and the realistic fact I’m coming to terms with is that human sexual relationships are based off of very selfish emotions. (I can go more into this later). The fact of that matter is that how good a man is at attracting women is based largely (not solely) on his life experiences, particularly his experience with women. We all know experience with women cannot be taught, it can only be learned through experience, which is why approaching is so much more important than sitting and reading these forums on your laptop all day. Experience only comes with practice, putting the 10,000 hours in (dropped a little Malcolm Gladwell on y’all).

So, now comes the problem. Most guys, however bad they think they are, are not actually that bad. They can make up for all the years lost sitting at home playing World of Warcraft while their hot female classmates, guys and girls, are out being social! It all comes down to changing the mindset which has been embedded into you, thinking and acting like a winner, meditating to calm the Obsessive voice in your head telling you now to be bold and walk up to a girl because something bad could happen. I know all of this, I really do. However…

Is there such a thing as too far gone? Can many many years of rejection and generally being a boring person be enough to make it not worth it / impossible for a person to change into a more confident attractive person? Do women care that a guy has never had sex, never had a relationship, never had years and years of experience? Pitch in Reddit, I want to hear your opinions. Maybe I’ll make more posts or even a video!

TL;DR: Is there a such thing as a guy who is too far gone to become attractive to women?