So I find a cute girl on OKC or Tinder, right? How do you spark up a conversation and build comfort so she'll meet up?

These chicks get hundreds of "hey whats up" and I don't think going full asshole from the gate will make them want to talk to you either. I don't want to talk about something from her profile because then I'm qualifying to her, right?

So that's the question. What do I need to know to improve my online approach? What attitude/words can I use to get 7s and 8s to want to reply to me?

Some openers I have tried so far

  • ur friend with the noles shirt is hot can i talk to her instead? //blocked

  • id like to see u choke on my cock lets see that makeup run //probably the one that got me banned

  • objects in mirror are heavier than they appear //don't waste time trolling whales; just hide them

  • what a waste of a pretty face

  • i think if we ever meet we have to fight to the death (thought of this for opening chicks with high enemy%; positive results thus far)

  • why haven't we had sex yet

Some replies I've used:

Her: "Hi i like you"
Me: "i can't tell if I like u or not with all those clothes on" //blocked

Her: "Hi"
Me: "lol"

Her: "Hi, I am looking for a new friend, would you like to text?"
Me: "i've got enough friends"

Lol at how fucking boring these sloots are when they initiate. I guess I haven't gotten enough clickthroughs to my profile yet because I'm seeing mostly hambeasts. So TRP, have I got the right idea, or am I going about this the wrong way?

Okay so acting like a psycho got my account banned. Thanks, /u/midwest_misogynist. You helped me realize that OkC is moderated by feels and white knights.

Take two. New account. Less psycho.

Summary of what I have learned so far:

  • On pictures: (1 aesthetic face shot, 1 in a social setting, 1 with women around you, and 1 shirtless)
  • Mysterious profile
  • Maintain outcome independence
  • Have an abundance mentality when writing a message
  • Don't act like a psycho; you'll only get banned by the feels police
  • Establish comfort before jumping right into blatant sexual references
  • Don't troll hambeasts as they will flag you and get you banned; just hide their profiles
  • Approach as many chicks as possible (quantity of messages over quality of message) worry about filtering through the ones who actually reply later

More to come.

Should I even bother with these bullshit questions or should I just mass approach with decent looking pictures?