I'm 31(f) and have been dating my s/o for a year or so. We just moved in together. I've always been "sheltered" with sex and was the girl who never went into sex shops. Not prude.. just not educated. Well... that has definitely changed. A few months ago, he asked me if I'd be willing to use a strap on with him. I was very hesitant at first but I've never had a connection like this with anyone so I said fuck it and did it. And I saw how much he enjoyed it which made it very pleasurable for me as well. But he wants me to be more dominating. And I'm not sure how to be. We have a very good sex life and we are very open with one another which is very amazing. I just want to blow his mind... as well as other parts.. haha! Any suggestions?