Creating big emotional turnover/spark/loop/rollercoaster while already in a relationship with her?

Spacedust_ · 2015-08-22T21:14:44+00:00

From Mark Manson;"This is more or less the blueprint of female attraction: a strong, high status, attractive exterior (lifestyle and looks), fearless, and able to open up and share your vulnerable side with her (and theoretically, only her). Women get weak in the knees for this. And it’s not even conscious in them most of the time. Basically strong, bad boy who doesn’t really care and have abundance of options share his vulnerability with her and she thinks she accomplished something really important. During the process she gets small rewards (admitting she is the only one made him feel like that for a long time, introducing her to your parents) , it makes her to work harder for the goal..."

Challenge her, teach her stuff, make sure she is aware of you have abundance of women around you. Give her small rewards and go adventures with her

lodro · 2015-08-23T06:24:48+00:00

Are you sleeping with this woman?

If so, you can get a lot of mileage out of being great in bed (which is fairly easy to accomplish). If not, you should probably move on; this woman is your friend.

Of the things you mentioned, jealousy and intense shared experience are the closest to good ideas.

You don't want her to think you're mentioning other women to make her jealous, but if she gets the impression that other women are into you that will almost always increase her attraction. This can be as simple as making a few female friends and making plans with them often, so that when you make plans with this woman, you have to fit them in with your plans for lunch with Julie and yoga with Sarah.

"You do yoga with Sarah? Are you into her?" "Haha - she wishes."

Doing exciting, emotionally engaging things together is great. Doesn't have to be about adrenaline necessarily, and it should be something you both enjoy naturally (i.e. fit to your personality). It's better if it involves a lot of contact (e.g. dancing, partner yoga, snuggling to watch a movie). You'll share a physical, emotional experience together and associate those feelings with each other.

Title	Creating big emotional turnover/spark/loop/rollercoaster while already in a relationship with her?
Author	Korum123
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	August 22, 2015 6:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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