Basically I screwed up by inviting too many people to my birthday party. I thought, since it was summer and loads of people would be away I'd need to overcompensate with invites...

So I invited around 300 people for a relatively small 3 bedroom flat. There's currently 95 attending with 25 maybes and numerous plus ones who have contactaced me. But I know people will try and bring people on the day.

We throw a party at the flat 6 months ago which had around 80 people there and it was relatively managable so I think the number should be fine as it is NOW but I'm more worried about random people coming now.

Also slightly worried about boy to girl ratio as there's 44 girls and 51 guys attending.

My idea is to only send the address to attendees the day before or even on the day. There's 7 days to go but what I may have to do is shut the guestlist down now and if any hot girls decide to click attending, I'll send the address to them. I may even have to not send the address to some people on the guestlist and just say they were too late.

May sound like a dick move but I need to celebrate my birthday somehow and this was my best option but I screwed up initially haha.