Hey, sup Seddit. so yeah yesterday for the first time I made out with a girl I had just met in the middle of the day on campus. But I am still getting some mixed signals and need you guys' input on how to read the tea leaves of the situation.

So first how did it happen.

It was just a regular cold approach but we just hit it off and vibed really well. We didn't talk about anything particularly relevant to this post, I opened with something very mundane. It was a walk-with approach that ended up to her car, we stopped at her car and at this point we both realized we were enjoying each others company and I said "You're cute, we need to go on a date." She was like yeah lets do it, and we exchanged numbers. I'm from Miami where everyone does the Latin thing where you kiss on the cheek when you say goodbye to a girl (doesn't matter if the relationship is platonic or not its just a friendly thing). And when I went for the peck on the cheek when I was getting ready to leave I could tell she wasn't used to this so I explained to her what I just wrote above. At this point she was like -"oh, like this", and gave me the two side cheek peck like they do in western Europe, but she was leading the whole time she gave the kiss which suddenly gave off a lot of intent. (she was explaining to me earlier that she had just gotten back from studying abroad in Europe.) We started talking about France and how they kiss four times in some parts when they see each other and she mentioned that in France they're really into PDA. I said "yeah, PDA I'm into that too" and I just leaned in and we started making out! (I had never done this before and I was more than content with the number- don't know what inside me gave me so much balls but I think nofap had something to do with it) After that she looked at me and was like "Woah- YOLO!" we talked for a little bit more and I said something like no but we gotta meet up sometime for real because she had to go study and good vibes were thru the roof as far as I can tell. (It might sounds really The Notebook-y but I literally feel like we shared 'a moment' like Mariah Carey always is talking about). I am really super happy with this cold approach but if I were to be very critical with myself I would have pushed harder for an instant date but regardless this is a big stepping stone for my progress.

Anyways so whats happening now is tragically she is not responding to my text messages. I really can't see how us kissing was taking it a step over the line and I consider myself pretty sharp with social queues so I would be very surprised if being ballsy with the make was the deal breaker for the day 2. I sent her the standard "Hey this is banlieueouest" right after we said goodbye but no response yesterday. I did something this morning which some of you may shake your finger at- but I sent her a value giving anecdotal funny text pertaining to my morning at work, (like basically a funny story) and yeah no response as of yet.

thank you :)