Women love alphas and self determined and confident men. One reason is that said women has to expend no emotional consequence a if things go bad, it is well known that the guy won't give a fuck. So she has no resposibility as usual. I have been aways naturally confident intelligent guy. I datedwho I wanted and have been with a super girl for almost two years. I never asked for anything from her...nothin. Two weeks ago I had an acute spell of anxiety and about ten days of pretty serious depression. Didnt realize what it was and still pretty confused. Anyways my lack of effort and whathveyou. I just got told she needs to thik for herself (cause she has aparently been locked down by m for the last two years.) but she wanted to talk. I instnctually laughed asked if she was serious then said it didn't seem like she wanted to talk. Shes spending the weekend with parents now. Part of me is so fucking confused like I missed something maybe? Other part is fucking pissed? Ill be seeing her Sunday.