How to initiate the kiss with a girl?

2015-09-21T23:08:03+00:00

Get closer to her and watch for triangle gaze, that's where she keeps looking at your eyes and your lips. When she does that she wants you to kiss her so just do it.

lasvegasfun · 2015-09-22T08:40:21+00:00

Don't wait for the end of the date, that will create a high pressure moment. You want it to feel as natural as possible. I highly recommend looking up micro escalation. In short you should be touching her constantly through out the date. start slow by touching arm then escalate to putting arm around her/holding hands. Get close and talk to her in her ear. Then kiss her cheek possibly. If she hasn't backed away from you by this point kiss her and there is a very small chance that you would be rejected. If at some point she backs away from any of the small advances just slow down and repeat the process.

matty25 · 2015-09-23T05:41:56+00:00

I have a rule and it's I don't care how bad the date is going, I always go for the kiss on the first date. ALWAYS. This way there is no "should I do now or wait or maybe right now, no next time".

If I haven't done it by the time the date is over I always walk the girl to the door. Don't even ask just tell her you are walking her to her door. Then when you say goodnight you just go in for it.

It's as simple as that I promise you.

embracingdharma · 2015-09-23T21:56:22+00:00

I like going forward with one quirky method. Some moment, when the general emotional atmosphere of the situation is amazing enough and when she is middle of saying something, I pull my head back and look a bit oddly to her lips and state "there is something on your lips". Then proceed to make a great kiss without hesitation. After that I say "oh, it was just a kiss there"

Works like a charm if done without creepyness or hesisting about making the move. It applies push-pull-push and slight negging in itself, wrapped in a package of flirty but mischievous playfulness. It takes women totally off-guard and you can find them trying to process this rollercoaster of emotions caused by dissonance between what is said and actually experienced.

Timing is pretty much important if she is too self-concious, you need to check-in the kiss second or two after the first comment and let what was said sink in while kissing.

Title	How to initiate the kiss with a girl?
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Date	September 21, 2015 8:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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