Hello Seddit

Three nights ago I went to a party and hooked up with this girl. The next day she came over to my house to pass the hangover together, and we were having an awesome time (bjs and stuff) until I realised she was starting to act like a girlfriend. I am not really looking for a girlfriend, and she was not girlfriend material anyway.

Even though I had fun, this still stressed me the fuck out, and has been doing so for the past two days. I obviously want to avoid this in the future. The problem is, if I act like I just want sex I'll come of as an in-sensitive douche, and quite frankly I do enjoy the connection; I'm just not looking for anything more long-term or serious.

How can I make it clear to girls that I'm not looking for anything long term or serious, while not coming off as an asshole and still having a short but intense connection.

tl;dr: How can I make it clear to girls that I'm not looking for anything long term or serious, while not coming off as an asshole and still having a short but intense connection.

Sorry if this text was poorly structured; it is early in the morning.

PS: Don't know if it's relevant, but I'm living in a suburban area of Norway