High schooler looking for some help

NapalmOverdos3 · 2015-10-15T03:43:01+00:00

I struggled with this until I started partying and got out of my shell. Honestly, from what I've found it's straight up science with girls. Absolute psychology when you get right down to it. I'm good, but I get rejected all the time and it doesn't even bother me anymore. However, some of my best successes have been at parties because it's a perfect setting. If you see a girl you like go talk, if she likes you, you're going to get queues from her. It seems like people always forget what I find to be one of the most basic things, if she's still talking to you and engaging, she's interested. That's probably the hardest part is getting her interested, but once you do it's gravy. You can already make them laugh so that's not an issue so let's get into your question.

Women take some work, some more than others but that's not important. One of my favorite principles in psychology is the Foot in Door Phenomenon because it works. Start with very light and subtle touches and then start to escalate. If you're talking to her and there's music, tell her to dance with you. Take her hand and move to the dance floor. This is probably one of the best shots you have to take that step in my opinion. Nothing builds tension more because essentially, you're going from light touching to being pressed against each other. What works for me like 90% of the time is when you're dancing is to get her facing you and pull her close all while maintaining eye contact. Then lean in and kiss her, dance some more, then leave with her and take her home. I never know any of the girls I dance with and that's what I like, because I want to meet new people. I have to cut this short though, I'm pressed for time but if you have a question I'll get back to you when I get to check the message

RowingCox · 2015-10-15T09:05:59+00:00

It's all in your head man. Whether you know someone before hand or not doesn't change who you are. Just bet the same attentive, fun, and funny guy you normally are if from of people you don't know. Don't go into the party with the intention of impressing girls, go with the intention to have fun and the girls will follow. Just remember that eye contact is the key into a woman's soul.

iFunnyPrince · 2015-10-15T15:56:22+00:00

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Title	High schooler looking for some help
Author	Tcocco123
Upvotes	7
Comments	3
Date	October 15, 2015 2:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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