How do you get a girl to meet up who seems resistant to the idea?

captainbloodd · 2014-05-02T02:20:39+00:00

Tinder is for lazy attention whores. Go out and meet real women face to face.

aguy01 · 2014-05-02T00:49:44+00:00

Girls will often shit test when you ask for a hangout. Just pass the test with amused mastery.

aaron_the_just · 2014-05-02T05:28:27+00:00

She's probably not attracted to you enough to actually want to meet, but she's attracted to you enough to be a glad recipient of validation / attention.

Next her and spend your time talking to a girl who does want to meet up.

RPSavant · 2014-05-02T00:48:09+00:00

ok start out by giving us the messages you use to try and get them to meet up

masterrod · 2014-05-02T04:32:12+00:00

You probably haven't establish enough trust before you escalated... Try something innocuous.. Or ask her, "Is there any reason why we can't go ...?

TheGreenPill · 2014-05-02T06:47:51+00:00

Why are you wasting your time with a tease?

She wants you to call her pretty and princess and affirm her value.

She puts no effort into validating herself because everyone else will do it instead.

She sounds like a lazy waste of time. She's only on tinder because there her fragile false reality has no risk of being broken.

If they don't want to meet up for a date move on. There are plenty who will.

jwi750 · 2014-05-02T07:29:57+00:00

Please just read Models by Mark Manson. Don't waste time on girls that don't show interest. It's either a fuck yes or no.

Title	How do you get a girl to meet up who seems resistant to the idea?
Author	43530902342234
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	May 2, 2014 12:06 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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