I went to the club yesterday- something i dont do often- and i had a really fun time but whenever it came time to kiss a girl i was with i knew i had a chance but i was afraid to. Part of it was because of the rejection, but another bigger part was actually that it would prove that im impoving and changing.

I grew up in a house of hardcore religious parents, so you can assume that they project shame and guilt onto doing these things and being easy with girls. So whenever im out i tend to feel this weird guilt and shame feeling.

Thoughts also pop into my head like "im too good for this" or "i will disrespecting this girl. I then tend to not go through with it.

I'm just starting to advance more into my game and it seems like this is my road block when i go out to clubs. Day game it feels different. AA to the extreme.

I know i can totally pimp it out with these girls but i'll feel like im using them. I honestly do feel a connection on a human level so i dont think im not connecting with them.

My game is good but i just feel like my thoughts hold me back from my true potential. I know if i do this i would feel totally awesome.

Any tips on how to overcome those thoughts in the moment?