So I'm a sophomore in college. Only ever hooked up with a girl once in my whole life a few months ago, and that's because she came on to me. I've yet to have had sex. My dilemma is that I have very little time in college- I've taken on somewhat of a difficult double major and two time-intensive extracurriculars, not to mention constant applications to internships and god knows what else- and for this reason my time is very limited and valuable to me. This makes it difficult for me to actually pursue women, because it definitely takes time to talk to girls, and it's often the case where I'll get a girl's number or match on tinder, start a convo, and then forget about it for like half the day because my mind is occupied with other things, leading her either to lose interest when I do respond or to simply un-match me. I've also found that some girls like to waste your time to feel validated, so I don't entertain the idea giving away my time that easily anymore unless there is something special about the girl.

For this same reason, it is also very difficult for me to go out and meet girls, especially because events where I would potentially have an easier time meeting girls, such as talks and campus discussions on topics that interest me, occur during the week when I'm constantly doing work, and I'm not much into the party life on weekends (which, btw, is heavily limited to bars, and I don't have a fake id). I do meet some girls in my campus orgs but they are very small/close-knit and I'm hesitant to fuck something up and make it the environment awkward for the rest of the year.

In the past year or so, I've worked a lot on self improvement, and it's done wonders for me in most aspects of my life (I believe my new sense of confidence, dress, and thinner physique are likely what convinced the girl I mentioned to take me back to her place). My heavy workload at university is also in line with self improvement, as I consider my personal aspirations and future more important at the moment than getting girls. I'm just not sure if I'm overdoing it, and should set aside some more time for meeting girls, since I am young and in college and it will never be this easy in the future. I often feel lonely in a romantic sense here, even though the majority of time I would be able to spend with a gf would be studying at the library with her.

Anyways, I know its a long, rambly post, but if y'all have some advice for me I'd be happy to hear it.