I've been wanting to get into this for the longest time. I've read up for over a year, posted a few times but I've never made an approach. I used a lot of the tactics I learned here in already existing relationships, and they helped me get my first relationship. My issue is approaching, but I find no joy in doing it (probably because I've never done it.) but yeah, I'm always excited to do it with friends but as soon as it comes to having to approach alone with nobody with me, it's not something I want to do. How do I start to actually WANT to do this alone?