Seddit... Huge wtf moment. Depressed and confused, help?

UnclassyGentleman · 2015-11-21T15:55:22+00:00

Oh boy, okay so here's the shit -> she's just fucking with your brain and the other guy's brain. Why? Because it's fun for her. Why is it fun for her? Because drama.

The problem here is that you're "developing feelings" for this girl and you're letting her affect your game. Also, the entire thing could also be her "plot" to make you jealous, which is clearly working.

Anyway if I was you, frankly I would really stop paying attention to this girl. BUT WHAT ABOUT MUH FEELS? Yeah, well, save them for someone who doesn't play games with you like this.

If you react, you're playing into her bullshit. Don't react, keep on casually dating her or just forget her and move on. World has too many women.

In conclusion, don't let her fuck your game and life up because she totally can.

throwaway21112015 · 2015-11-21T16:01:19+00:00

Pretty simple. She is into you. She's also into the other guy. She hasn't decided on either of you and perhaps she doesn't want to decide, perhaps she wants both. Perhaps she wants even more. Or not, maybe she just wants one, but just hasn't decided yet.

If you want to be even more paranoid than necessary, you could assume she's playing games with you and/or she wanted to make you jealous. My personal advice, do not develop feelings for her, keep plaing the field (be it for casual hook ups or to find "the one", whatever your deal is).

If you just want to make it exclusive (not what I'd suggest), talk to her. Make it clear that if she wants to see more than one guy, that's fine by you, but you won't be part of it. Either she'll agree, then you get what you want, or she won't, then your chances of getting what you wanted weren't that great in the first place.

P.S.:

She'd even make fun of the guy she's seeing to me behind his back.

That's because she's into you and wanted you to believe that you're special, by telling you something that she (allegedly) wouldn't tell the other guy. 50% chance she also makes fun of you to the other guy. Other 50%, she actually likes you more than the other guy, she just sucks at decision making.

throwaway21112015 · 2015-11-21T16:12:15+00:00

Dude, I just realized you made this account exclusively to ask about your girl and you obviously don't trust her. I can guarantee you the chances of you two having a good meaningful realtionship is pretty much nil. Cut her off and move on with your life.

EHethe · 2015-11-21T16:43:56+00:00

She sounds like trouble and id bail before it gets out of hand.

001010110011 · 2015-11-21T16:28:58+00:00

Fuck her n dip

Title	Seddit... Huge wtf moment. Depressed and confused, help?
Author	JoeLouis123
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	November 21, 2015 3:43 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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