So this chick I've been seeing, been on 3 dates, the last date was last Friday May 9th 2014, I went to her house to cook her dinner (nothing fancy, but tasty) and then we watched two movies on her couch alone. While watching the movies I cuddled her in a few different positions and so on. Mid way through the last movie her family started coming home, younger bro and mom, they didn't interrupt too much but she mentioned she wasn't feeling good so after the movie I got my stuff and helped clean up the mess I made.

Here is what I'm over thinking, even tho it was the third date, I still hadn't kissed her till this point, and prior to this kiss, I've never kissed anyone besides my aunt on the cheeks a few times when i was a young kid, so no kissing experience here. I was super nervous and unsure about what to do, but unlike my last two dates where I just hugged her, this time after hugging, I looked at her and said "I want to kiss her, and did, Idk how well it went, but idc, I went for it and it worked. Probably not the greatest first kiss ever, but I wasn't sure what to do, someone mentioned I should have told her I've never kissed a girl before, but at the time that didn't come to mind, and seemed lame. In the past prior shes been slightly flaky with her text responses, usually within 24 hours at the latest. So the next day I texted her asking how she was feeling because it seemed like a semi issue and I was curious, but no reply. I then texted her Monday asking her to have lunch or something Tuesday, but then my phone broke and I had plans change, however, she told me later that night she couldn't do it, and once I got a replacement phone and saw her text, I asked if she would switch times to later, no reply after that. The following Wednesday, the day I generally ask her out for Friday or Saturday, I asked her if she'd be down to see Godzilla this weekend since it looks really good. Anyway, I still have yet to get a response, so I mentioned it to someone else and they said put her on ice.

I'm not entirely sure what that means, but I sent her a text saying Idk what is going on, but I don't have time to wait for her replies all the time and told her to figure out her stuff out and made other plans for the weekend and I may call her the following week, followed with later. That was earlier today.

I'm asking for advice to help get my mind in the right frame to decide which road to go. Either calling her back or not next week. I have found some potential other interests with other girls, but I want to try to work things out since I feel she could be a good long term girlfriend, but she recently broke up with her boyfriend about 3-4 weeks ago and I'm not sure if that is still effecting this situation or not, also she works quite a bit. With this girl though, I figure the plus side of keeping her is it's good practice and experience, plus shes hot and I do like her. The downside if she drops me or w/e may happen, I lose her and just move on. (I will add that this weekend the other plans involve another girl on Sunday but it will be in a group setting, however, we made plans last Tuesday to do something together this upcoming monday) Despite what happens with this current girl though, I will be going on the dates with this other chick.

If you've taken the time to read this thank you, this chick is the first girl I've dated so I got a lot of flaws but great opportunity to learn about game. I'm thinking I may have made some errors somewhere but hey, let me know and I'll learn from it! Thanks