So I've had a date with this girl last Sunday. The date was good, we ended up kissing a lot at the end of the night.

It was the 2nd day we've kissed. The first day happened on a saturday night after having some drinks with some of her friends (I kissed her outside the pub, without anyone knowing). The thing is, somehow she thought I was a player, because of how confident I behaved and how I spoke with a friend of her about seducing girls of different nationalities.

So, because of this, it was a bit hard to kiss her on Sunday again, but after opening up a bit, I could manage.

The thing is, I think I opened up too much. When we walked out from the venue on Sunday to walk towards the subway stop, I hold her hands, and I hugged her in the lift. I think this made her think I was a bit needy (completely the opposite of a player), so the "good-bye kiss" ended up being a bit short and cold.

After that, I've felt that in order to remove that "needy" aspect I gained that day, I should not be the one texting/calling first. So since Sunday, I haven't made a move. But she hasn't made a move either! I fear that if I don't ask her today (Thursday) at least how is she doing, the momentum is going to fade away.

What do you guys think? Should I text or wait for her text? If the former, when?

Thanks mates.