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Showed a bit of neediness, turned girl off, how can I fix this?

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December 11, 2015

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Title	Showed a bit of neediness, turned girl off, how can I fix this?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	December 11, 2015 4:39 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]penguin_says_slide 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]newsert1 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Ravnurin 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey mate. Definitely know where you're coming from. Blown a lot of potential like that in my past.

At this point, honestly, your best option of recovering is by doing the stark opposite of what you have done so far...be more flirty, tease her more, be less responsive, play harder to get, and do make sure to ramp up escalation.

For flirting/teasing you can ask her "how's my 3rd favourite brat doing today?".

For being less responsive you can just not text her right away; maybe make it the last thing you do before going to sleep, or even get back to her the following morning.

For playing harder to get, well...what would a girl do that plays hard to get? Start saying stuff like "maybe if you play your cards right", or "maybe if you're lucky", or "you wish". Another great thing is, if you guys agree to hang out say "sweet, my assistant has officially pencilled you in for [day] at [time]." On the other hand, if she says she doesn't have time or gives an excuse, "awesome, just send us a letter next week and my assistants will see if they can't pencil you in".

For escalation, well instead of just telling you to touch more, which is obvious, you can check out my blog post on touching here: http://socialmasteryrb.blogspot.co.uk/2015/07/how-touching-gets-you-laid.html?m=1 Because becoming a guy that touches or escalates more is not just about physical action, but inculcating the right beliefs that touching is OK and acceptable to do in society. I cover everything in that blog post.

A lot of this, especially the teasing lines I gave above, may sound waay inappropriate or weird, but you got nothing to lose...what you're currently doing isn't working, so you may as well try something new and perhaps alien to you. I've used it a whole bunch of times in the past for you, so I know it works - just trust that the lines will work like magic.

Keep me posted!