I know it looks strange, but I meet over and over people who complain about the fact that they're always stuck at the same level with pickup. When they started going out and approaching girls, they saw a huge improve in their social skills and everything looked perfect. And then they reached an unclimbable wall between them and the next step of their improvement. For someone is getting a number that is not gonna flake. For someone else is to have a second date, or get on a date and don't be classified just like a nice guy and nothing more.

Well, if you're stuck at a certain level and you can't move forward, is probably cause you're doing something wrong. The results you get are not random. There's a reason why you get a kind of result and not the one the you want.

Like everything else, is a matter of trying new things that we're not familiar with. And I know that could be scary or stressful, but if we want to have different outcomes, is just stupid to keep doing what we usually do and complain about it.

The problem is that guys are not up to face things that make them scary. Maybe they got over approach anxiety and now they can approach a girl, but they're scary to take risks during the interaction.

Well, one of the secret to improve in everything in life, is taking risks and facing the consequences of what you did. If the consequences are bad, you learned something and the next time you can adjust your technique. But if you never risk anything, you will face plateaus and you will never be able to go on in your journey.

It's important to be critical about our actions, analyse them and change them if they give us wrong results. But in pickup we tend to forget it.

In this interview Jon Matrix talks clearly about this problem and it will probably make sense to you. http://www.pickupchange.com/get-into-daygame-interview-with-jon-matrix/

Be reckless guys. Everything you're looking for (women, money, career...) is waiting for you out of your comfort zone. You just have to step out, take the risk and take your chance!

Peace!