Hello guys, although daygame has become really popular and practiced, I still see a lot of guys doing basic mistakes when they approach girls in broad daylight, so I decided to list the 5 most important things to do at the beginning of the interaction, to maximise results.

1) Approach in front of her

The majority of the guys who come to me, they all approach on the side. Well, the big problem of approaching a girl on the side, either she’s walking or not, is that she has the option to walk away from us. And if she does it, the only thing we can do is to walk with her, but trust me mate, you won’t have good results with that. She will think “holy shit… This guy is following me! What can I do now?”. It’s the best way to scare her, and you don’t want her to call the cops or get some pepper spray on your eyes.

So get the habit to stay in front of her. And if she’s walking, leave 2-3 meters of distance between you and her, so she has the time to see you and stop. You don’t want her to bump into you.

2) Be honest

It’s totally easier to say a line you memorised than saying something honest as opener. For example, telling her “you’re cute” is definitely different than “I love your eyes’ colour”.

That’s cause the second line is specific, it’s not something you could say to every girl you meet.

So be present, and open her with something you really noticed about her, the thing that struck your attention, even if this something is “I think you have a gorgeous ass”.

Trust me, this is way better than saying something fake, not to mention that girls have a six sense to spot bullshit.

3) Give her a Time restraint.

Good old advice! This is specifically to disarm her possible excuse “I’m sorry, I’m in a rush”. She’s in a hurry, you’re in a hurry too. You don’t want to talk with her for 1 hour, you just need a couple of minutes. And this will make her feel more comfortable with the situation.

I usually say “look I was going to meet a friend, but I saw you and…” It works perfectly every single time.

4) Expect excuses

When you approach a girl during the day, 90% of the times she will use an excuse to walk away from you. This is completely natural, she doesn’t know you and her first instinct is to escape.

So you need to expect something like “Sorry but I have a boyfriend” or “Sorry, I really need to go”

The important thing is to be persistent and to not give up after the first obstacle.

Get familiar with changing the subject. If she says “I’m in a hurry” don’t follow her on that path. Switch instead the topic, for example stretch your arm in front of you and introduce yourself.

If you give up after the first excuse she throws, what you think will be her opinion of you?

5) Use linked talking

This is a technique that needs practice and practice. Briefly, it means to create a story line with your questions and statements.

If you start asking questions that are disconnected like “what’s your name?” “What you do” “Do you live here”, this is definitely an interview.

Learn instead to use the information she gives you to create a common thread of her life, and give her your opinion about that.

A little example:

“You have an accent… Where are you from?”

“I’m Russian but I moved to London 3 years ago”

“Really? What happen 3 years ago to make you move here?”

“Well, I wanted to travel and I always dreamed to live in London”

“Yeah, that was my dream too. I spent my childhood thinking about moving here. But you didn’t like living in Russia?”

“Well, it wasn’t bad, but I really needed a change!”

“Tell me about it! I’m Italian and, don’t get me wrong, it’s an amazing place but I got bored of my city. So is London how you imagined?”

And so on… With 3 single infos “Russia” “3 years ago” and “London”, you could hypothetically go on for hours, and this is just a single sentence she said!

Pay attention to what she says cause what she says is the fuel to your interaction.

Cool guys, hope it helped the ones who are starting with daygame, and the ones who want to refresh some concepts we usually forget! And if you want to get deeper and watch the 3 videos I shot about overcoming approach anxiety, well be my guest!

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Let me know in the comments what you think of these 5 advices, if you agree with them or if you have other opinions!