Hello guys, I think one of the big aspects that are never analysed about Nightgame is what you should take care way before approaching girls! The preparation for the night makes the difference and I want to focus on what to do even before you leave the flat and before you get serious in the bar!

Maybe some of the things I'm gonna write could seem basics for you, but I'm realising day after day that tons of guys want to know for example how to get a threesome while they should learn a lot of basic things before that!

So read on, and if you already do all of the following things (I'm sure you're missing a few), well, it's a good exercise to strength principles in your mind.

Before you leave your flat!

1. Cleaning

Every time you leave your house to party, leave your place in the best state possible. I want your apartment as clean as Buckingham Palace! You never know what could happen later!

The last situation you want to find yourself in, is to realise you left a mess in your bathroom when you have this horny girl sitting next to you on a taxi heading to your place!

2. Wine

There should always be a bottle of wine available in your kitchen (and possibly two glasses for wine). What do you think you're gonna do when you reach your apartment with the girl? Bang the door strip ng clothes off each other like in the movies?

You both will feel nervous and as you may know, alcohol is a great alley in Pickup, if you know when to use it.

If you're not into wine, have something else that you can offer to the girl, tea, coffee... Do not get back to your house having just water available.

3. Music

Wine is useless if you don't have some lounge music to put on. Thanks to Spotify or Apple music, you don't need a collection of jazz cds. Log into your account and choose some chill out music, something you would use as well during a dinner.

Blues is always the best choice in these cases, but you can easily search for a playlist.

4. Additional Toothbrush

It could sound strange, but most of the times a girl come to our house and then she changes her mind and wants to leave, is cause she doesn't have her toothbrush with her.

Well, we're here to reduce every last second excuse, so always have in your bathroom cabinet a spare brand new toothbrush that the girl can use.

5. Breakfast

As you did with the wine, always have at home all the necessary to prepare a decent breakfast. Having a good breakfast the day after, especially after morning sex, is a total game changer.

The girl will love the fact that you're wild enough to bring her back home, but at the same time you're sweet and you care enough to make breakfast instead of kick her out of your house in the morning.

Beginning of the night

1. Be The First

One of the golden rules no one follows (actually everyone do the opposite) is to show up at the bar early, when there are just a few people. This is the perfect moment to start creating your social proof. Later in the night groups will be formed and to mingle with strangers gets a little more difficult.

Be aware that the people you meet at the beginning of the night will remember you for the rest of the night. Later, mostly cause of the alcohol, people will forget your face.

2. Introduce Yourself

As soon as you reach the bar, talk with the bartender and the people at the door. Introduce yourself saying that you live around there so they will see you often. Give them your name, and be careful to remember theirs. This will come in handy when you'll go back there in the following days, so you can open them warmly saying "Hey Nate, how's going man?". They may not remember your name but eventually they will. It's their job to be kind with the costumers so they will remember it sooner or later.

Knowing the bartender, the people at the door, the Dj, is a great social proof for the girls. They will understand that you're not like the other guys who stay the entire night in the corner holding their drinks.

3. Talk With The Guys

While you're at the bar, open sets of men. Girls can wait for now. If you can't find any topic to talk about (a match on the tv, their weird-looking drinks, why the place is empty...) ask if they already saw any hot girl. Talking about girls in a male group is your magic key to open any door.

Do not leave it just as a chit chat. Introduce yourself and get to know them a little better. Ask them if they visit this bar often, what people do later, where is the place with the hottest girls.

And when you talk about yourself, for fuck sake, be honest. Being honest is the only way to create solid bonds with people. If you're into pickup, tell them this, don't be ashamed of yourself. If you're afraid talking about yourself, it means you're not proud of your life right now and you need to change it. Honesty is your first step to change!

4. Approach The Easy Sets

Next step is to look for the girls that you don't like. I'm not saying that you have to approach the ugly ones, go for the ones you're not interested physically. In this part of the night your goal is to warm up, and you will move into flirting later.

The best way I do this is to mix sets. At this point you're still talking with guys at the bar. Ask them what they think of those girls over there (choose a group of girls around the bar). Keep talking about them and then suddenly say "you know what, we should talk with those girls". So get your balls out, go to the group of girls and again, be honest. Tell the new group you were talking about them and you want to have a answer to a question you had. For example you were wondering if they are from another city/country cause they look like foreigners. I mean, whatever works. Having assumptions for them is the best way to open the new group and have them talking with you.

After this, invite them to join your group. If you're friendly and smiling, they will agree. Girls usually spend the entire night looking for something to spice up their evening. Be that thing! ;) If they say no, well, they'll remember that you are friendly and you'll discover how common it is to be open by those same girls later in the night (it happened to me countless times).

Beyond the result, you'll reach a lot of goals:

  • You warm up
  • You're acknowledged as leader of men
  • You increase your social circle
  • You were alone at the beginning of the night. You're now in a group
  • You can use this technique over and over to mix groups and eventually get a girl you're interested in one of these groups.

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These are the basics every guy should follow if he wants to have results in nightgame. The preparation is as important as the seduction part that comes later.

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