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| 44 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthThat girl might not have thought it was but I guarantee many girls will wake up the next morning in that scenario and feel violated. Be careful bro, having sex with a girl who’s too drunk to get herself home is never a good idea. Just get her number and get her home or to a friend. | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 5 | can anyone help me figure this out, I was cold approached and-She clearly likes you, sometimes all that takes is a vibe and isn’t necessarily about looks. If you like her too make a move, like the other guy said you can probably just kiss her when you two are alone. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Joined onlyfansGet outta here | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 32 | I can see why sliding into dm’s barley work. Too many options and plus guys, 90% of the time you’re boring.Disney plus this dick | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 03:36 AM |
| 8 | I know that speaking in a loud clear voice (not in an obnoxious way ) shows confidenceI think it was a joke. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | worst kindGreat shitpost | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 04:09 PM |
| 4 | What Nobody Teaches About NightgameGood post man | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 12:15 AM |
| 35 | A few observations based having only female flatmates - good for guys who put women on pedestalNot to argue either way, but theres a bit of confirmation bias here since someone who is naturally good with women due to his upbringing likely isn't going to be hanging out at /r/seduction. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 03:55 AM |
| 9 | I think I blew it. (Attraction window expired)Fuck is wrong with you | /r/seduction | 26/02/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Pick UpWell when you're going to a place that's main purpose is selling drinks, I would think it's implied that you're targeting drunk girls. If not then whatever, but I still can't imagine this technique gets a lot of results considering how many girls would think he's just a creep. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Pick UpIf the girls you're going for are drunk and you're sober, then yeah it's pretty fuckin unethical, dude. If you're both drunk, then you both have poor judgement and neither of you are in a position to be taking advantage of the other. But if you're sober it's pretty easy to take advantage of a drink girl, both physically and mentally. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Alcohol and Pick UpBecause she met him that night, she's probably past the point of judgement and he's deadass sober looking to take advantage of her. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Pick UpForreal. This is what girls mean when they talk about "rape culture". It's borderline rape, not to mention stupid to go around offering rides to drunk girls and then fucking them while you're sober. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 05:40 PM |
| 20 | Minor posture tip: Fight back against computer neck!Sure if you enjoy looking like a centaur | /r/seduction | 11/02/16 11:46 PM |
| 23 | How to Lead Women (And Why Most Men Suck at Dating)I disagree with your assessment, but that was a fantastic diss at OP. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 08:21 AM |
| 5 | How to get to a girl who's been always complimentedYou sound like you're narrating a story book. | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 12:11 AM |
| 2 | I'm a girl... How do I initiate a conversation?Lol any guy worth a damn would just forget about her. | /r/seduction | 28/11/15 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Went on a tinder date last night, had a great time, she tells me she didn't feel a "romantic connection." How do you create a romantic connection?There you go, doing it again Haha, no seriously I'm not sure how I messed up that word that badly, thanks for the correction | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 06:23 PM |
| 0 | Went on a tinder date last night, had a great time, she tells me she didn't feel a "romantic connection." How do you create a romantic connection?I think you're just arguing schematics. | /r/seduction | 21/11/15 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Really don't know if I'm doing it rightHave you ever actually tried these? I can't imagine these would work at getting you a date. If she had interest in dating then she wouldn't always be "busy". | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 08:11 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with the "you're a fuckboy" curveball?Sounds a lot like she's placing her own insecurities about her past relationships on you. Honestly I would just laugh it off when she calls you that and keep doing what you've been doing. Try to move towards a date if you've just been texting for a while. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Fat chick wants to fuck, I turned her down, feeling a bit bad about itWhy did you even ask her out in the first place if you weren't attracted to her? | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Smiling makes men more attractive as husbands -- but not as hook upsThis is a really well programmed bot. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 10:11 PM |
| 1 | When do you stop texting if delayed/no response?You know, you make a really good point. Maybe I'll hit up a few numbers that I let die off and see what happens. I've got a little bit of a complex when it comes to being seen as desperate and needy because of how needy I've been in the past, I'm sure I've lost some good opportunities because of it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | When do you stop texting if delayed/no response?That's a fair point. But the thing is, I already made the move. They didn't reciprocate. I know that I've never not answered a text from a girl I was interested in, shit even with my boys I only ignore their messages once in a while and if I do I'll usually go out of my way to hit them up later. In 2015 I feel like guys don't actually get rejected. They just get ignored until they go away because it's easier than having to explain to every guy why you're not into them. So I just take the hint an… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | When do you stop texting if delayed/no response?The harm is you lower your self worth every time you hit up a number who doesn't even respect you enough to text back. I'll never send another text after she's ignored me once. If I really like her and we have a lot of rapport I'll send one more but if she ignores that I move on. | /r/seduction | 12/10/15 10:36 PM |
| 2 | What does a high snapchat score mean?Overthinking it. All it means is she uses Snapchat a lot. What do you care who she uses is to talk to if you're not in a committed relationship with her? | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Should I Approach Her? [INFOGRAPHIC]This is the hardest to follow infographic I've seen | /r/seduction | 12/08/15 05:38 AM |
| 11 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?You've gotta be fucking kidding me. All the great advice given to you in this thread, and you dismiss it and cling to the one comment that enables your shitty, defeatist attitude towards life? You're just digging your own grave. Thinking like this isn't gonna get you girls, you've been thinking like this your whole life and yet you're here looking for answers. Maybe, just maybe, the key is what you've seemingly never tried; bettering yourself and thinking positively. Try it out, and it will chan… | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 01:59 AM |
| 10 | How do you date good looking girls when you're not a good looking guy?This is it. This is the comment I'll show to my buddy next time he bitches about being unattractive. | /r/seduction | 03/08/15 01:51 AM |
| 2 | How to Approach a GirlChill out dude, its not even that big of a deal. If they're interested they'll give you their number regardless of how you phrase it. Personally I like just handing them my phone and saying "Here, put your number in." Simple, quick and to the point. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Trying to Level UpYou've gotta get to level 43 where you unlock the charisma and confidence perks. The game becomes a joke once you have those. | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 03:10 PM |
| 3 | What to answer when asked "Are you a virgin?" during question game on the first dateThat will just make it sound like you're ashamed of it. | /r/seduction | 13/07/15 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone find a correlation between how much time a girl has prepped for a date and how well the date goes?"Dolled" guys, it's dolled. | /r/seduction | 03/07/15 06:55 PM |
| 3 | [LR]: Spent the weekend with a cheerleader I met on Friday. Third girl in a week. Insights + picsYou're an amazing writer. You went from humorous to romantic to philosophical without skipping a beat. Nice work. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Girls are like cats, too much attention and they'll run away but control yourself and they'll chase after you.Highschool is all games. | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First Date with Tinder Girl. Did everything textbook, but no close and ultimately, I left because she was wasting my time.Well she's not asking for your home address, dude. Just tell her the area you're in. If you live by the beach, tell her you live by the beach. I'm sure your city has mostly named neighborhoods. As for how many girls you've met on there, I'm not too sure why that bothers you but you definitely could've come up with a better response than "lost count". I would've just said just a few with a shit eating grin but that's me. | /r/seduction | 15/06/15 03:10 PM |
| 6 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?Is that how a lot of guys really feel? That they have to be reminded she's a human just cause she's hot? My approach anxiety usually comes from me tricking myself and telling myself that I don't really need to talk to her, she can't be that great, I'll see another one on the next train ect. Seems like a whole different type of AA, whatever works to get over it I guess. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 03:01 PM |
| 5 | How do you beat the "out of my league" feeling?I'll never understand this. It's not hard to have feelings that she's on another level than you while also imagining her taking a shit. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How to continue if your first opener didn't get a response?Are we talking about tinder/text game? You should really clarify cause you're getting advice for day game. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?I haven't felt that feeling in a long, long time. You need to reevaluate your self worth if you think any girl is too good for you. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Went to a nightclub last night - not sure if I'm ugly or not now :/I dunno I've been to clubs where I'll take 5 girls by the hand and ask to dance and get shot down every time, but then I just walk up behind a girl and start grinding and all of a sudden she's into me. Might just be small sample size. | /r/seduction | 11/05/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | My gf broke up with me 2 months ago, and despite going out all the time i just think about her constantly and how i'll never find a girl better than her.Thank you for this. That's what I needed to hear to get the mentality back that I had before I got involved with her. | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Tips for escalation when there's a massive height difference?Doesn't that throw you off at all? It would be like dating a child | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"?Who said they were? | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Texted twice now, no response within 3 hours - what do I do? Is it time?Fucked her? In seriousness though, I was with a girl earlier this week and we cuddled and spooned on her couch and I'm worried I didn't escalate enough. You could've gone a lot further. From the sounds of it you just sat in the room with her, you should've gotten closer to her. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Texted twice now, no response within 3 hours - what do I do? Is it time?That's not really a clear indicator of your interest. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Are these girls flirting or are they just friendly/compassionate?Guys it's a coffee shop, its not a big deal if he hooks up with his co workers. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 04:35 PM |
| 1 | How to develop a more personal connection with women (and people in general) ?Are you actually more than friends or are you just saying that? What makes you think you're more than just friends? | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 12:17 PM |
| 1 | So for guys who want to date their girl best friends and don't know what to do:So for guys who want to date their girl best friends and don't know what do to: Don't | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First post, perhaps overly long, and very textyYeah dude this was pretty bad for you. At least it seems like you know where you went wrong. The whole thing could've been avoided by stating your intentions on the napkin in the first place. Say you wanted to take her out sometime instead of saying you should be friends. The actual texting part you were way too clingy and invested. All the triple texts, and your texts were so much more drawn out than hers. You were just breaking basic texting rules left and right. You should've stopped talking … | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 01:41 PM |
| 0 | How do you show sexual interest and escalate without coming off as desperate/needy?If you're not desperate and needy then you won't come across as desperate and needy. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 11:22 PM |
| 4 | CLOSED MOUTH DONT GET FEDThis is one of the laziest posts I've seen here. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Texting too muchMy opinion of texting is follow her lead. Start by using the standard rule of texting only for logistics, but if she's insistent on texting more don't be afraid to reciprocate. Just be careful of texting rules; no double texting, don't always text first, no "how's your day", don't be afraid to let a text conversation die, no "lol" after ever text, you get the idea. There's just a lot of little things you have to be aware of. Make sure she's more invested in the texting than you. If it seems like… | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Why Do Girls Flake?I'm not the most experienced, but I've only had one girl reject me flat out. (She actually sent me home and told me she would text me her answer because she didn't want to do it in person lol) All the rest either agreed to dates and then flaked or simply didn't respond to my invitation at all. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to "anti-seduce" (become platonic friends with) a girl?Try using the word friend to describe her, ask her advice on other girls you're seeing, shit like that. For your second question, get more fwbs. I've never had one but my understanding of fwb relationships is that they can't last forever, someone will start to get attached and you'll have to break it off. | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Any sedditor lairs/frats in the SF Bay Area? Second day in the cityWe've gotta stop calling them lairs | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 05:55 PM |
| 0 | How can someone get a girls number in an extremely short time frame?I knew that was familiar! | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 02:38 PM |
| 3 | How can someone get a girls number in an extremely short time frame?Alright Johnny bravo | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird to start a conversation with someone you've never met? [Still in High School]You're getting mixed reactions here so I'll throw in my 2 cents. Don't do it through Twitter. You're decreasing your chances significantly. Don't you guys get an hour long lunch? Use that time to find her and strike up a conversation, get her number and text her. DMs are absolutely horrible compared to texting especially if you haven't met her in real life yet. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Someone pimp out my love lifeThat's your idea of writing like a gangster? I think he's just writing like an idiot. | /r/seduction | 06/03/15 02:22 PM |
| 2 | My standards are too high. How do I fix this?for example at FSU you could easily encounter a girl who's 8+ in say 7 out of every 10 girls. In Austin it's more like 2 out of 10. It sounds like there's still plenty of attractive girls around you, so make sure you take a shot with the ones you do see. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Met with ex , lessons about oneitis , relationships, mentality and curesDamn it only took you two weeks? My first serious case of oneitis went on for a whole year and took me like 2 months to completely get over. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice for getting out of your comfort zone?Funny, I've heard the opposite. That when you tell your friends and family you get a feeling of fulfilment as if you've already completed what you wanted to accomplish. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 02:15 PM |
| 2 | WHAT A NIGHT, had sex with an girl I knew for months.Can you explain where he didn't get consent? | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Met a girl, asked her out, dates in a week. How often/what should I text her?I like to go off how much she texts me. I'll start out by trying to keep it as light as possible, but if she's always texting me then I'll just go with it. Don't take the whole "only use text to setup plans" thing as gospel, especially if you're young. Casual texting is becoming more and more commonplace today and I think ignoring it is counterproductive. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How can I grow the balls to invite girls that I've insta dated to come over?I love how the person who doesn't read pickup at all comes and offers the best advice. Shows how much we over think shit in here sometimes. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongNah I read you loud and clear. Lifting is a great path to self confidence though. Seeing constant progress on something as important as your body is a huge self esteem booster. My first steps towards confidence was lifting and taking care of my body. It gives you a feeling that you can do whatever you want when you put your mind to it, which is partially what confidence is about. I found when I built up that confidence it took more to destroy it than simply not lifting. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 09:59 PM |
| 7 | First date in three days and her #. Do I text prior?Just text her something like "I'll meet you at x at x. See you soon". Don't try and start a conversation, it's just so you can confirm the plans. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrongWhat happens when you stop lifting and your gains go away? You never stop lifting. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 09:26 PM |
| 11 | Sorry for the delay! As promised, the texting book is finally up on Amazon and I’ve made it free for the day for Seddit to grab ithttp://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B00TT3D57O/ref=kinw_clar_choose1?ie=UTF8&*Version*=1&*entries*=0 Here's the link for Amazon.ca in case any Canadian users were having trouble getting it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Question about texting/girlOkay based off of your cryptic wall of text I would say that she's not actually interested, or you're making yourself too available. Never ever text a girl wondering why she didn't respond. It is hands down the neediest thing you can possibly do. Try making that more readable and easy to follow if you want better advice. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 01:12 PM |
| 1 | So she has a boyfriend...Don't send that message. If you're fine with being the side piece then just keep going like nothing is up. I recently had the same thing happen to me, I was flirting with a girl heavy for a few weeks, got her number, she followed me on Instagram and she had pictures with her bf on there. I evaluated the situation and decided that I was okay with her cheating with me. I kept pushing, didn't acknowledge him, she never brought him up either and now coincidentally they've broken up and we're going o… | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 12:39 PM |
| 2 | What to say if a girl says/thinks you are gay?Not what I was trying to say at all but I see how it could've been interpreted like that. Like I said, I don't think there's any line you can say that will "work". That's literally who she thinks you are as a person. It would be like trying to convince someone you're not a serial killer when you've been convicted of it. Now that's a really, really shitty analogy, I know, but you get the point. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What to say if a girl says/thinks you are gay?I can't really describe it any better than that other guy. It's hard to describe what he's trying to say. I've seen people who put it into words 10x better than I ever could on this subreddit, maybe try looking for those threads. If you're having issues with girls thinking you're gay, there's not much you can say at that moment to flip that perception of you around. The point is to stop her from ever seeing you in that light in the first place. You do that by, well, by being a man. By showing co… | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | What to say if a girl says/thinks you are gay?Dude what aren't you getting here. Be a MAN and no woman will think you're gay. It's not difficult, that guy gave you all the answers to your question and more. | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Need an outside perspective on what I am doingLmao research | /r/seduction | 20/02/15 04:53 PM |
| 9 | A FUCKING HANDSHAKELmfao I'm sorry dude that's hilarious. Seems like you didn't fuck it up too bad at least. | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | On and Off with beautiful girl, she has never had a boyfriendIt sounds like she sees you as a friend. | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 06:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR]The most brutal rejection i have faced, with a twist.Fuck Your friend is an asshole, but don't second guess yourself so much, man. That many people telling you she's interested in you and you still have doubts? Assume attraction. Your friend is seriously an asshole though. I don't think your chances are dead with this girl. She will probably think you flaking was some way of getting back at her for being bitchy but if you explain that your friend decided to play a prank on you she may be willing to forget about it. Did I tell you your friend is an… | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | As a mid to upper level 'pua' dae feel like this sub is boring or useless?It's useful when you first start out to get basic concepts down. It's a great place to help you develop confidence and build your inner game. I don't find the outer game stuff here as useful, I come here because I legitimately enjoy discussing women and I don't have a friend circle where I can do that as openly as we do here. | /r/seduction | 18/02/15 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Failed at getting women in uni, failed at getting women in a bar, failed at getting women through online dating. Where else can I meet women.What kind of game does that guy have? I wonder if he let's her sleep around since it would be kinda hard for him to satisfy her. | /r/seduction | 17/02/15 03:15 PM |
| 2 | What Makes Kanye West attractive to Kim Kardashian?3) His status as a rapper isn't even great. Overrated IMO. Yeah sure in your eyes. But this dude is on top of the rap world right now. There are a handful of other rappers right now who can generate the same buzz over an album as kanye can. In terms of marketability, popularity and mainstream success he and Drake are sitting in a tier by themselves right now. And as for why she's attracted to him, I think you've been too caught up in PUA theories and games rather than how actual human attraction… | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?It would be best to catch her on her own but since you said she's always with her friends that's not gonna be a option. Her friends will make it harder for you but it's just something you're gonna have to deal with. Walk up to the group, greet the girl you like and then greet the rest of them, so they all know who you're there to see. Things are harder when she knows you like her because she's probably wondering why you haven't made a move yet, but on the other hand she will know exactly why you… | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 11:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you approach when a girl knows you liker her, and is always with her friends?I disagree. I think the worst thing you can do is start talking on facebook when you haven't built anything up with her in person yet. | /r/seduction | 11/02/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | My dad alwayse fails my moms shittest. What will happen if I pass them for him?Lmao shit tests have gone too far | /r/seduction | 09/02/15 02:39 AM |
| 2 | What to do after getting rejected??Very. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 03:38 AM |
| 1 | I really wouldn't be too afraid of texting a girl a little "too much" in the beginning. Here's why.I think the reason most of us here hate texting so much is because so many guys are so absolutely horrible at it that it's just detrimental. Like the guys who will text a girl twice with no response, then message her on Facebook asking if she got his text, then send some passive aggressive crap when he gets the thing saying she read the message but didn't respond. They shouldn't text. But if you know how to text properly and in a non needy manner than it can be great for building rapport and kee… | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Advice to the Wolves from a SheepDon't bother reading the replies to this comment guys. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 08/02/15 03:21 AM |
| 3 | "Alpha" males, what are your rules for communication online/via text?🔥🔥🔥 | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Incognito alphasI think this is it. You're probably picking up on their alpha behaviours because you've been studying seduction and therefore notice it more | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to seduction, why are the rules of the games like that?Gender roles. It would be nice if it was 50/50 but that's not the case. No point in wondering why, just make sure you're doing your part. | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 04:01 PM |
| 2 | The End of NeggingTell me you never actually said that | /r/seduction | 04/02/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Suave silver tongued gentlemen, in day game how do you let them know you're only interested in sex and propositioning it.That doesn't always apply. Girls today are more cautious about rape than ever before, and if you sit there sipping a sprite while ordering her tequila shots she's gonna think you're trying to get her drunk. | /r/seduction | 03/02/15 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How should I get her number? (Situation different than ususal)Ask her? It's not really weird because like you said you never really talked before | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Beginner Questions From a Hopeless GirlHonestly a girl just needs to have the basics of looking good down, body, face and fashion sense. You don't need the body of 25 year old kim k, just make sure you're in shape and don't forget to do your squats ;). Boob size doesn't really matter, as long as you don't have a pancake ass, which as I said, squats. If you have good facial features then you can pretty much seduce any guy you want. If you don't have the best face, makeup works wonders, but don't overdo it. We notice. Men don't really … | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 05:14 AM |
| 2 | My emotional state is largely governed by the people around meYou've got to find your validation and happiness from within yourself. I used to be in the same spot you're in right now, and I really wish I could remember what I did to help myself so that I could tell you. Try and find reasons to be happy with yourself always. Even though betty at work didn't call you back or you got blown out by that cute girl on the bus, it's okay because you are happy and confident in yourself and you know that you're always working to improve. And don't ever stop working … | /r/seduction | 01/02/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Infographic: Where the Singles areTell me more about them big ol San Antonio women | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 04:11 AM |
| 2 | I'm 26 years old and I've never had a date with a girl ever, what should I do?I think I just woke up my family from the audible clap of my hand hitting my face. | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Complimenting a girl on the first conversation, yes or no?Honestly man you just gotta feel it out. If you find yourself talking to her and you see a good time to compliment her and you want to do it, then go for it. You just have to go off of your instincts. Sometimes they will be wrong, but the more you use your instincts the better they will become, and then you can rely on those instead of worrying so much about the right lines and having good timing. Build your instincts and they will tell you what to say, how to say it and when you should say it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 06:13 PM |
| 3 | I am always kind of tired on datesI recently quit, and I just find myself with nothing to do all the time. I guess it's gonna force me to go do more productive shit like homework and sports, maybe I'll find a new hobby too. | /r/seduction | 27/01/15 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Looks do matter, but they aren't everything.How did you manage to keep on the keto diet? I tried for two weeks and I was just so drained and lethargic all the time that I had to quit. I found IIFYM to be much more effective for me. | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you reject someone properly?Maybe you could drop some hints back at her then. Hit her with the good old "you're a great friend" line | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 08:11 PM |
| 3 | I don't know how to tounge kissIf anyone here bothered to read your post they would realize that you're likely a girl. This sub is male-dominated, so you might be better off finding answers at a more female orientated community, like /r/fpua. They're pretty dead lately though so you could also try /r/sex | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How to act distant with a girl you are attracted to?jelly beans I'm rolling | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Met a friend at college who lifted me out of my funk just by being friendly and down to earth-how is this possible?those war-mindset RP dudes who think life is a fucking battlefield. lmfao I've been trying to put this into words for so long | /r/seduction | 15/01/15 07:22 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to get girls in abundance at high school?Might I ask, what makes someone a great hugger? | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 09:40 AM |
| 19 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manJust took a quick browse through r/trp, why does so much of it seem like blatant women hate? There's some very good material in there but it's all blanketed by a thick hatred for women that I don't understand. Everyone there seems to just be bitter towards the female population. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 08:53 AM |
| -2 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manI really don't see how you came to that conclusion. | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 07:51 AM |
| 2 | A Book in Review: Models by Mark MansonSee /r/theredpill as an example of people who have gotten lost in sexist thinking. The sad part is that it borrows a lot of language and techniques from this subreddit. That can't be a good sign. This is something that I don't enjoy seeing as I think this subreddit is better than that. It's something that potentially threatens subreddits like this one. /r/theredpill and /r/seduction are far closer to being the same thing than most realize. There aren't a whole lot of differences between the two,… | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Living in a gay neighborhood has taught me some things.I agree with you, but I think he was just joking lmao. No need to destroy him like that | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your stats for 2014?Dude it's not an rpg | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 03:29 PM |
| 62 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?Talk to everyone. Don't take your phone out unless it's to put in a number. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell off girls that just want to be friends?I'd probably say anything other than "go fuck yourself." Seriously though, if she was cool and I was alright just being friends than I would be friends, if I only valued her for sex than we would simply part ways. | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I've learned here a couple of maneuvers to approach and seduce a girl, which got me wondering. what are some tactics and techniques girls use on us?I'm late, but I had one girl I used to work with who would literally come up to me and ask me about some dumb shit while pressing her boobs right into me for as long as possible. She was fun. | /r/seduction | 12/12/14 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm 23 years old and have zero experience with women. Is there any hope for me?Your confidence cannot come from anything but yourself. A woman cannot give you any real, lasting confidence, you must learn to become confident in yourself regardless of wether you're getting rejected or not. True confidence comes from within. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Smart Kid SyndromeIf you're dating her then she's clearly not out of your league. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 12:52 AM |
| 4 | The consequences of unclear intentionsI agree. If you want a LTR it is important to filter out some of the seduction stuff which is more geared towards flings. LTRs are based off of honesty and communication, which is exactly what OP did with her. I don't think he was too needy, he was simply vulnerable with this girl and explained what he was looking for. When they both decided they wanted separate things, op elected to cut off contact. That's the exact opposite of neediness IMO. | /r/seduction | 03/12/14 12:47 AM |
| 1 | I hate texting.Facebook is a waste of time. I only use it for group messaging and getting a hold of people who's numbers I don't have. But texting is crucial. This is 2014, I hate texting girls too but we live in a time where everyone constantly has their noses in their phones. We gotta adapt. | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm actually gay, how did you know? | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 01:25 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]They're just walking vaginas without much else. /r/theredpill is that way --------> That's so very far from being true. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 01:13 AM |
| 9 | What do you do after you hurt a girl?Take your time and head over to /r/bigdickproblems | /r/seduction | 24/11/14 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Eye contactWell it's kind of important if he wants to have any idea of what people are saying around here. Some of the terms are outdated though, HB in particular. | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 11:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Shit like this gets upvoted all the time because the majority of people here are just afc's looking for an easier way to do everything. Anything that comes across as "One simple trick!" gets upvoted by the masses and then shitted on in the comments. It's nothing new. | /r/seduction | 15/11/14 09:21 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Once you're fully comfortable approaching, it's like riding a bicycle, you never forgetIf someone asks me for my email I think they're trying to sell me something. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 09:47 AM |
| 5 | High SchoolWho the hell is Sasha | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 09:09 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I just went for it, and it paid off big. Warning: Long.Sounded good, you should look to schedule another meet-up asap though. It seems like you built a lot of attraction and you wouldn't wanna lose it by waiting two weeks. Your writing was excellent, you really gave the reader a clear visual of the sexual exchanges. I had a semi. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 09:34 PM |
| 10 | [FR] I just went for it, and it paid off big. Warning: Long.This read like an erotic novel. | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:48 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Gaming with an old friend and a VERY cute boy... I closed.Nice FR, I enjoyed reading this. Hopefully women posting FR's here will become a little more common. I wouldn't mind. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Gaming with an old friend and a VERY cute boy... I closed.It's pretty dead but there's a lot of great content from when it was more active, stuff even we can put to use. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 07:29 PM |
| 2 | How can I express my intentions without ruining a friendship?I was actually pretty immature at the time. It was my first rejection and I saw her the next day in a forced interaction (we bowled together) and made some shitty comment like "so we're just gonna forget what happened yesterday" and she just kinda dismissed it without even acknowledging it. That's when I realized how little it mattered that I asked her out, even though the day before she was all apologetic about it. She kinda helped me to realize that displaying intent is just a normal human thi… | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 12:39 PM |
| 3 | How can I express my intentions without ruining a friendship?Eh, I've maintained friendships with girls after asking them out. If she's mature she won't even talk about it after it happens. The key is to actually move on and not pine after her. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 11:59 AM |
| 72 | [Meta] Can we stop with the blog posts?I would like to see this place move towards being almost all self posts because I believe that's where the best content is. Pickup has become a business with a lot of these blog writers and rsd guys, it's annoying looking at their click bait titles targeted towards afc's and "nice guys". | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Being too intimidating? Eye contact.I used to do this and you just end up finding other alpha males and having staring contests with them. | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl r/seduction?That's an amazing subreddit. | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How much of a difference will bulking up make?Yeah man that's probably the issue completely. Are you looking to wait until marriage? If so you should just be straight up with them when you setup the date, you'll lose a lot of women but you'll find the ones willing to wait. Also you could try bible groups and other religious groups to find women with similar morals. | /r/seduction | 29/10/14 04:36 AM |
| 2 | For the love of GodMan what made you think that was a good idea | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 07:50 AM |
| 3 | After about 1-2 months of seeing a girl, they always hit a sort of peak of interest, where they clearly show they're very interested. Then it quickly fades away and they lose interest...Nah it's not even that, the ridiculousness of what you're saying would be tiring to keep up. Koala bears midgets and will smith? It comes off as trying waaaayyyyy too hard to be random and it isn't even that interesting. It kinda reminds me of that holds up spork copy pasta. Definitely step it up from good morning and how was your day but i wouldn't ramp it up that far, just not how I like to do things. | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 10:45 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If they're willing to cheat with you then they will cheat with anyone else who strikes their fancy. If you wanna do it I say do it, can't feel too bad about it. The boyfriend obviously isn't providing something that you do. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 04:38 AM |
| 1 | is cold approaching considered weird for most girls in college?That guy speaks nothing but truth, he's pretty funny too. How he got those random girls kissing each other and smacking each others asses is beyond me. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Fucked My bros CrushHis plot-line-esque path to eventually concluding all over that sloot's navel. Lmao | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Talking to people at a partyI met a guy at a party once and the way he made his entrance stuck with me. He came in, greeted the host, and then went to everyone at the party, male or female, wether he knew them or not and introduced himself with a handshake. He was able to converse with everyone easily because everyone at the party "knew" him even though most of us had never seen him before. He ended up being a really cool dude who even though I only met once, I still remember him and almost look up to him because of his ch… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 06:49 AM |
| 17 | If Jay Z Can Do It....Beyoncé MADE Jay-Z? I don't think you're very familiar with the years 1998-2004 | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Wanting ItI did /r/nofap a while back and it was a great experience. I got to 60 days or so and it was an absolute grind but I no longer NEED to masturbate every day and it opened my eyes on a lot of shit. I wasn't even very addicted to porn, it's just something every guy should do at least once. | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Should you shake hands?Also if its a girl you're interested in don't break the handshake until they do. Hold your frame. Why? | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, locations for teenage day game?Really? I'm in Toronto, recently graduated and I couldn't even name a pool hall or an arcade, let alone one that kids hang out in. | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 04:13 PM |
| 12 | Hey Seddit, locations for teenage day game?Lmao teens don't hang out in pool halls and arcades anymore | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets 2,000 replies on Tinder by adding a badge to his profile pic: "Your Hot Match of the Day"For fucks sake, OP. | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 08:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] T stands for Tinder.Nigga... How did you fuck this up? | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Messed up a girl's name and used it as an in to score a date.This is one of the best comments I've seen on reddit. | /r/seduction | 20/09/14 07:09 AM |
| 11 | I'm getting married today!The bottom of this thread is why /r/seduction has a bad rep. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 05:55 PM |
| 17 | Some very basic tips & observations for beginners, from my experience:Did... Did you edit your comment to say delete instead of just deleting it? | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 10:52 PM |
| 3 | 3 Confidence Crutches You Need to Stop Relying OnI feel like one that should be added to this is validation. When I am constantly getting validation from women I feel like superman, but as soon as this validation goes away I feel crushed and I have to get that validation back. I've been noticing that I only get that validation back when I stop looking for it and embrace my awesomeness. Then once I get the validation back through my own confidence which I know is there I feel like a king again. Then the cycle repeats. It's something I think a l… | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How to display my intentions early?Wow, awesome post, thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/01/14 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Sent a text to a coworker confessing my interest and I've received no response. I don't know what to think.If I were in your shoes I wouldn't even bring it up unless he does. I would however continue heavy flirting and escalating with him and see how he reacts to it. If it's the same as before you're in the clear but if we recoils or acts strangely then you probably messed it up, but live and learn. | /r/seduction | 20/01/14 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Can we do a date idea megathread?Question; how do you go about building a pillow fort? How does it stay up? | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 07:08 PM |
| 17 | How smiling changed my lifeBro I thought you had J Cole teeth, those things are perfect | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Extroverts have fewer flakes?I don't agree with this. I identify as an "introvert" and that doesn't mean I go out of my way to avoid social interaction or that there is a lack of it in my life. I think I'm pretty active socially but after a few days straight of going out I feel like I need to "recharge". Being social drains the energy from me. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy socializing, it just means I can't go out 5 days straight and still be energetic. There are a lot of people who use their introversion as an excuse for… | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 04:12 PM |
| 2 | 25 year old virgin here.Lol no, this is the type of thinking that got him here | /r/seduction | 28/11/13 12:28 AM |
| 18 | An example of maintaining investment in yourself (read description first).That's what I thought too but at second look I think the fact that he doesn't bite on her attempts to reschedule is what makes this work, had he just accepted her offer to meet again it would just seem like he's being needy. | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 09:05 PM |
| 20 | What's your routine once you brought the girl home?You sound like quagmire. | /r/seduction | 25/09/13 06:51 AM |
| 2 | How to not come across as desperate?I never thought about it like that. So simple. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 03:23 PM |
| 2 | What's your favorite quote that can be applied to seduction?Thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 06:55 AM |
| 11 | [Field Report] First Time Approaching a GirlYeah, fuck that guy | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 02:22 PM |
| 15 | Sexual flirting?Newb here, but I'm pretty sure you just have to show up at her door at that point. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 01:48 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Similarly, how do you do it with someone who knows you are/were interested in them, but you two decided to remain friends? | /r/seduction | 06/08/13 08:31 PM |
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