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Thanks mate! :)
/r/seduction02/11/16 05:58 PM
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Thanks mate!
/r/seduction04/06/16 02:24 PM
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Good question mate. The best advice I can give you is "move out". Not just to have a place for girls, but mainly to grow as human being!
/r/seduction04/06/16 02:24 PM
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Not for now... But stay tuned. Maybe in the future.
/r/seduction03/06/16 06:53 PM
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I get what you mean but I don't agree. It's easier to blank out in front of girls, but this doesn't mean that can't happen with a close friend.
/r/seduction13/05/16 10:40 PM
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That's why I'd like to hear some testimonies. Running out of things to say happens to everyone once in a while. We can learn how to reduce it but we'll always have these moments, especially in pickup.
/r/seduction13/05/16 10:39 PM
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All great advices guys, but I'm still waiting for any real story :D No one here ever run out of things to say in front of a girl?
/r/seduction13/05/16 10:29 PM
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Of course you can be ok in a small town, but my advice is MOVE! The best thing I've ever done for myself was to move from a town to a city. You'll grow twice faster, not to mention all the amazing people you could meet in a big city compared to a small town. I know it could be scary at 23, but grab your balls and do it. Learn how it is to live out of your bubble of comfort. I can assure you're gonna get better even with your relations.
/r/seduction13/05/16 02:50 PM
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I based this article on the girls whom I asked about text. But maybe I just asked to insecure ones! 😄
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:50 PM
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I just think we're all human and we're all insecure. I use "we" cause I believe every one have insecurities once in a while. Sorry guys but I don't believe you saying "I never do anything like that". You should get rid of "I'm a real man" shit, seriously.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:48 PM
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Hard to believe you mate. It always affect you on some level. You don't need to look like superman.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:44 PM
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Got it mate. Peace! :)
/r/seduction10/05/16 09:18 PM
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I've just said that you can decide or not to download the pdf, that's all. And again, you can unsubscribe whenever you want if you don't like the stuff I sent you. I don't get your anger mate, I don't think I did something so wrong. Do I give away my pdf for joining my newsletter? Yes. But I don't see the bad thing in it and actually is what all the people on the web do. You talk about giving things for free and as a matter of fact, the article you read and commented is for free.
/r/seduction10/05/16 09:05 PM
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All these points I put there are because girls told me those things, and I asked a lot of them. It's hard to realise but girls are as much insecure as we are. I'm sorry if you didn't like it.
/r/seduction10/05/16 09:00 PM
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But there is no price for it. You can download the conversation and unsubscribe. I think it's the same if I posted my website saying "check my website".
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:33 PM
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Thanks mate! Well, the link isn't spam and if you don't want to take a look to the text conversation you just don't have to download it! :)
/r/seduction10/05/16 08:27 PM
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You're right mate, it's just the easiest example to do. But actually it was just to make the point of what it means "linked talking". You can apply the same principle to everything else, not necessary travelling. Even if you say something like "I think I've seen you somewhere... Do you come to this bar frequently?" It's a good way to get infos from her and make questions and statements.
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:04 PM
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I don't agree mate. "Being yourself" is a vague concept. You shouldn't be the same person for the rest of your life, you should improve instead the traits of your character that are not in line with the person you wish to be. If you don't educate yourself everyday, you'll be confined for the rest of your life by the limitations you taught to yourself.
/r/seduction09/05/16 08:09 AM
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I guess it depends even on the place where you live. Here in London, if you approach a girl who is walking on the side, 90% of the times she will keep walking.
/r/seduction09/05/16 08:06 AM
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If you have results even without it, good for you. It's just a way to make her feel relaxed, that this conversation is not gonna last forever.
/r/seduction09/05/16 08:04 AM
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Yeah, I mean staying in front of her, especially if she's walking. Then it's your duty to make the situation feel comfortable.
/r/seduction09/05/16 08:03 AM
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You should try it mate!
/r/seduction08/05/16 07:11 PM
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That's good promotion mate! XD
/r/seduction28/04/16 10:32 PM
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Well, you don't have to sign to the webinar if you don't want.
/r/seduction28/04/16 09:11 PM
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If you start being honest and stop hiding your thoughts, you'll become less introvert and more social. That's a key to beat your approach anxiety. Approach anxiety is basically "being afraid of the others' opinion". If you break this chain, approach anxiety will slowly dissolve.
/r/seduction28/04/16 05:41 PM
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Glad that you liked it mate! I love doing them as well and it's the best way to reply questions from my followers.
/r/seduction26/04/16 05:13 PM
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Of course not. I say that there is nothing wrong in buying her a drink.
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:29 PM
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Common problem! I met countless guys ending in a situation like that one, me included! :D That's the rule I gave to me: in every first date, I will always try to kiss a girl. If a girl comes to my place, and I'm attracted by her, I will always try to kiss her. If you can stick to these rules, no matter what, your dating life will change drastically.
/r/seduction11/04/16 08:02 AM
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Emotions are contagious. If you think you're weird, she will think you're weird too, and she will never find you attractive. The best thing you can do is to erase from your mind "approaching girls to seduce them". Think instead about having fun. The more you approach girls with the goal of a number or instant-date, the worst results you get. But if you approach for the only sake of approaching, and you don't expect anything else, this will change the outcome. The question is always the same "Are…
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:58 AM
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Don't believe this stuff mate! The entire idea "I'm alpha so I don't buy her a drink" is total bullshit. You need to become a gentleman, not an asshole. And this means that you know when to pay for her, when to open the door for her, when to move back the chair to make her sit. If you think that "being a badass" will make you get laid, think again.
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:52 AM
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That's the right mindset mate! Rejections are part of seduction and you need to accept them. It doesn't matter how much experience you will get in pickup, you will always have your good amount of "Nos" along the way. The sooner you accept it, the better it is for your growth!
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:49 AM
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Don't know if it's a placebo, but either way it works for me! :) The best thing is always to try and give it a chance, and see if it's beneficial for you or not.
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:25 AM
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I was completely like you, I thought nobody had a worst approach anxiety then mine. When I started, I walked around London for 20 days, and I couldn't approach even once. Sometimes I feared to have a heart attack before approaching! Trust me, everyone thinks to be unique in his problem, but it's not like that. I went through it, and I met a lot of guys overcoming it, so trust me, there's a way out. Watch the videos I posted, I can give you more detailed advices there than writing here. Good luck…
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:21 AM
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Usually when you try to fix your bodylanguage, it feels weird cause you'd like to assume a different position. It's like changing habits. At first it seems awkward, but it's just a matter of time till your body and mind adapt to the new behaviour.
/r/seduction10/04/16 09:18 PM
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Definitely. It's so weird that nobody realises that is also the other way around: bodylanguage can shape your reality.
/r/seduction10/04/16 07:28 PM
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Yeah probably I made a mistake writing "purely on emotions". I think it happens in the majority of cases. I had this info not just dating girls but hanging out with them. My closest friends right now are all girls and they confirmed it, even if they don't like being like that. But anyway we have different views on that, and that should be the meaning of websites like reddit: sharing knowledge and get richer.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah I guess it's not easy to explain. When you start sexting, usually you need to bring the conversation to a sexual topic but it's the girl who wants to be in charge, the one who rule the game. But after a while, you need to take charge, becoming the dominant one. That's the thing that will make her get horny. When she gets horny, the first thing she wants to do, is to send you a picture to make you horny too.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:12 PM
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It's a really long explanation, and it would be easier to show you how. Well, long story short, you need to switch your role in sexting from a passive to an active role. At the beginning she should be in charge, and after a while you have to take charge. This will make her aroused and at that point you just need to tell her that you'd like to have her here with you. The picture is kind of automatic. I don't know if I've been able to explain to you what I mean! :D
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:57 PM
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Hey biozabb, I never meant that girls are not capable of logic and mental stability! If our lives revolve around crazy human beings, that means that we're crazy as well! :D I wanted to say that women are emotional creatures. The majority of choices you take in life is based on what your feelings say and this doesn't mean "be unable to use logic". We as men, we're mainly different. We want always to have concrete answers, we want to rationalise everything. I don't think that's sexist, it's just t…
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:52 PM
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Ahahah I understand you mate. Actually getting pictures is totally easy if you learn how to do it. Girls love to send naked picture and know that you got horny with them. But asking is not a good way! :)
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:45 PM
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It's not about "how long you should wait". It's about not showing that you're there waiting for her message, this indicates that you don't have anything else to do. As I said to other people, this are not imperatives, use your common sense cause rules are made to be broken once in a while. Generally don't be in a rush, but if a conversation requests your immediate reply, just reply.
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:43 PM
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Well sexting is a total new topic mate! :D I have a chapter of my course about sexting with explanations and screenshots. But anyway in the future I'm gonna write here an article about it for sure.
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:28 PM
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If it worked it means it's good. :) Just don't get attached to lines, cause there is nothing like a perfect line. One could work for a girl and it doesn't with another. Provide a good vibe as much as you can by texting her, and things will probably go well.
/r/seduction30/03/16 02:17 PM
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If you've never met the girl on twitter, it's another story mate. The rules I wrote in this article are about what to text when you already met the girl in person. My suggestion would be to start engaging her replying to her tweets and see how the thing goes, but I wouldn't expect a lot from that. As I said in the article, girls are attracted by the emotions you can provide her in real life, and you can't give her anything of that by chat. I don't mean you don't have to try but if I were you I'd…
/r/seduction30/03/16 01:15 PM
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What I always suggest my students, is that numbers are nothing. If you get a girl's number, it doesn't mean that she likes you. In the best case scenario she gave you her number cause she dare you to prove yourself. But if your interaction in person didn't create enough connection with her, that number is completely useless. 99% of flakes are cause of the interaction you had in person, not because of your first message. That said, keep on mate. Pickup is a rollercoaster of emotions and just the …
/r/seduction30/03/16 12:59 PM
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I got curious about texting with all my female friends, and all of them, even the ones who are not so cute, they deal with 4-5 guys texting them, asking to go out. If the girl uses Tinder, is even worse. Don't waste time when you get a number cause competition is fierce.
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:52 AM
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Well, good luck mate! XD
/r/seduction30/03/16 09:10 AM
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Totally agree mate!
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:26 AM
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Good point mate. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:26 AM
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Women rely purely on emotions, they're completely different from us. this is a point every man should realise to stop taking rejections and flake numbers personally.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:24 AM
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Hey mate, in the article I meant that everything you're gonna write aims at the goal to set a date. This doesn't mean that you can't have a conversation. For example if you ask her about her hobbies, this has the purpose to check her schedule and understand when she's free to go out. I think it's a mistake to text her just for the sake to text her. As I said, you have everything to lose texting with the girl for a long time.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:18 AM
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I get your point mate. Of course there are exceptions for every point you can read above, they're not absolute principles to follow. I think these are 10 good rules to follow without anyway loosing your common sense! Thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:13 AM
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I think you misunderstood the two different points. When I say "don't wait too much before texting her" I'm talking about the first message after she gave you the number. When I say "don't reply too quickly" instead, I mean in the conversation, when you're chatting back and forth. Hope it's clearer now.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:06 AM
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That's why I want you to improve this list. Maybe some points are nonsense for you and new things could be added. Reddit is about sharing knowledge.
/r/seduction30/03/16 08:02 AM
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Thanks mate, I thought I made a mistake posting it here! :)
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 02:36 PM
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Maybe I misunderstood the reason of this group... Is not to give dating advices?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 02:30 PM
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Or at least you're there to get the skills. If the girl rejects you it's not a big deal, you got experience for the next approach.
/r/seduction26/03/16 11:50 PM
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And don't give a damn about what happens. Hot girls have a lot going on, they have other guys inviting her out, flirting with them... Sometimes it's not about you so don't take anything personally.
/r/seduction26/03/16 11:48 PM
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Exactly, it's all about confidence! You can actually say whatever you want if your vibe is good. Her response depends just from that
/r/seduction26/03/16 11:47 PM
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Yeah, you're right. Actually look is not so important in dating, but is a part of seduction. In case of major deformations or diseases, these kind of advices are useless.
/r/seduction19/03/16 06:06 PM
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My opinion is that everyone needs a wing. It doesn't matter how good you are alone, you need someone who will push you. Everyone has bad moments and discouragement once in a while, and no one is made to be an island. Especially if you want to become good in pickup, you absolutely need a wing.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 06:01 PM
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Wow, I'm your same age mate and I use to date girls who are in their early 20s. I think you should stop it cause you're 450km far away, that's the biggest reason to start looking around you instead.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 05:57 PM
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Ahahah I mean Christmas time!
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:08 PM
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I don't agree mate. The more you wait for love to knock at your door, to more you get lazy, the more you will late. Taking action is the best decision to make not just in seduction.
/r/seduction28/12/15 07:33 PM
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I think it's totally weirder to go to a dark place with loud music, getting drink after drink till you're more than tipsy, approach girls dressed as whores and shout in their ears to make them understand what you're talking about. Pickup, at least as I see it, is the opposite of this crazy method the majority of guys use to get laid. Pickup is approaching girls in normal environments and have a connection with girls that is not merely physical, as the one we have in clubs. So I think there is no…
/r/seduction28/12/15 06:39 PM
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Look it in this way mate: while 99% of the guys are on Tinder, getting matches that will become nothing, you'll have less competition out there approaching in real life! Girls are so tired of men who are not men anymore! All the guys nowadays are fucking scared to approach a girl, unless they're on their fourth drink! Grab your balls and get out of here! I will never get tired to repeat this to guys who keep using Tinder cause they're to scared to act like real man! Why do you think girls are co…
/r/seduction28/12/15 06:29 PM
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You spoiled my entire podcast! :(
/r/seduction23/12/15 07:45 PM
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Say and do what you have in your head, without any barrier between mind and mouth, precisely like you're 5. It's difficult, but once you learnt it, a group of girls will hate you but another group will feel you as a magnet.
/r/seduction13/12/15 06:15 PM
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I used to agree with you, but then I realised that is bullshit. And this is cause all the best players I met in my life were not good looking at all. Of course looks matters, but if a handsome guy is not confident and dominant with the girl, she will lose her interest quickly. Listen to Kezia Noble here. She explains it clearly talking about 10 minutes more to an handsome guy. Nothing more! http://www.pickupchange.com/seduction-explained-by-a-woman-interview-with-kezia-noble/ Girls feed on emoti…
/r/seduction13/12/15 04:44 PM
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Ahahahah unfortunately she didn't know but it was damn hilarious!
/r/seduction22/11/15 09:41 PM
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You're totally right insickness. I meant that but I wasn't clear about it in the post I guess...
/r/seduction19/11/15 11:02 PM
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It's a state of mind that you can achieve just with experience and facing your fears on a daily basis. And most important you need a plan of action. Saying "I'll approach at least 2 girls per day" is not enough. You need an evolving schedule, exactly like going to the gym. Doing over and over the same thing leads to get stack in the same situation.
/r/seduction19/11/15 06:33 PM
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I had a lot of conversations with girls and they all confirmed me the fact that appearance in men isn't so important. If a guy is handsome, he gets just 10 minutes more to show his value.
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:59 PM
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Right mate! And there are countless online ways to find friends today: meetup, couchsurfing events, facebook events... The important thing is start to value friendship with girls. What you get back from it is totally important for pickup and life in general.
/r/seduction13/10/15 10:04 PM
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Why spam website? It's not a spam website and the podcast is from soundcloud.
/r/seduction12/10/15 06:56 PM
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Unfortunately there is nothing that will make you magically confident. The only person who can help you become confident is you. How do you think people became confident? Are they born like that? Of course not. They spent time and effort training for it, taking risks talking in front of other people, making mistakes, risking to be criticize... They invested in themselves, even if it wasn't easy and they would have preferred to stay under the radar. That's the same thing you have to do. You have …
/r/seduction30/09/15 04:15 PM
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The technique I use over and over (sometimes it works, sometimes not) is to show immediately my interest for the girl I like, and use the friends as my wingmen. I joke from the beginning with them about helping me getting to her heart. I always use the opener "Girls, you're all really pretty, but I fell in love with you" pointing at the girl. What happen after is that the girl you're pointing to blushes and the other ones laugh. After that, is really important being funny with her friends and co…
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:53 PM
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Wow, you remember the exact number of girls you went out in the right number of months?! I'm getting a little afraid...
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:38 PM
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The only thing that you can do is facing challenges. If you're ok with asking direction (I mean if you can do it without fighting with your mind for 30 minutes) move to something more advanced. Something that will make your heartbeat get faster. That's the only way you improve in this game. If you approach a girl asking direction, and at the end of the interaction you don't feel that rush of adrenaline in your body, it means you didn't push enough. The truth is that you never escape from the "am…
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:59 PM
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I'll try if my english helps me! :) It's difficult to realise it, but when you're in a stressful situation, your entire face is tense: we have the "fish eyes", our jaw clenched... Next time you'll be in a stressful situation (like approaching a girl) focus on your eyes area. You will notice that they're not relaxed. Relax your eyes means lie down your eyebrows and put your eyes half-closed... Imagine that you just woke up. That's a state where your eyes are relaxed. Doing that will relax automat…
/r/seduction09/08/15 03:53 PM
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Did I make some mistakes with english right?
/r/seduction08/08/15 05:07 PM
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Thanks for the advice mate! I'll try!
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:24 PM
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I'm totally newbie in Reddit! :D How can I xpost? Copy and past there or there's a way to share it in another board?
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:41 AM
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Right now it's almost 2 years, but it took time to become good at it! I can say that the first year was really tough, just rejections and flake numbers. Then I started to understand what works, what doesn't, how to maximize my results with less effort and how to enjoy the process. It's like any other sport or hobby: you struggle at the beginning seeing no results but you have to have faith and keep going. And it's totally important to train every single day, even for just 30 minutes!
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:40 AM
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That's great! Unfortunately apps like Tinder put down your motivation and take out all the fun! After a few weeks (or maybe months) in Daygame, you will get addicted to it and you'll regret all the time you spent swiping girls on a smartphone instead of hitting the street!
/r/seduction07/08/15 07:36 AM
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Get a puppy dude! A little fluffy puppy and you'll have to fight against girls like Dave Grohl in a concert.
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:48 AM
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That's a good decision mate! Online dating is used to reduce approach anxiety and fear of rejection. But let me tell you that you missed all the fun! You're gonna love and hate at the same time daygame, it will be like a emotional rollercoaster but it will be totally worth it. And after a while it becomes addictive! :D You just have to keep going during the pain period and don't give up! Take a look at this http://www.pickupchange.com/the-pain-period/
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:40 AM
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People who get more girls ever that I know are usually men of few words. You can feel their charisma even if they stand listening, without open their mouth. We think that you have to be funny and talkative to attract people but this is not true. I think it happened to all of us to step in a room and spot a confident person before talking with him. It's all in body language and relaxation. Some of the best exercise to become more confident and charismatic are breathing exercise, to slow it down. …
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:20 AM
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The only time you shouldn't show your intention immediately is when you have the possibility to see the girl over and over, for example in a work situation. If you're clear from the beginning and she rejects you, this will influence all the other girls in the work place. Instead you should be clear with your intentions from the beginning in all the other situations. She should get from the beginning that you want to fuck her, you're not there to chit chat. This will reduce drastically the friend…
/r/seduction06/08/15 09:13 AM
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The more you are in pickup, the more you realise that getting girls just to sleep with them will make you feel empty and alone after a while. It's a natural behaviour to settle down with a girl we like after a few years in pickup. Who tells you something different is either cause he's lying or he doesn't get laid at all.
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:33 AM
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Unfortunately we got lazy in pickup using speed dates, dating websites, dating apps and much more to ease the seduction process. All these tools got famous cause they reduce pain like approach anxiety and rejections. I’m not criticizing these things, I’m just highlighting the fact that you’re missing all the fun. Take a look at this: http://www.pickupchange.com/there-is-no-destination/
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:29 AM
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Exactly! That's an important thing in Pickup. If we would focus more on guys who get girls instead of all this pickup industry, we would realise that it all comes down to the same thing: take action regarding the consequences. Who follows his goal without thinking "what if..." has the best results, not only in pickup but in life. Naturals don"t need all these pickup theories cause, while we're thinking about what is right and what is wrong to do, they just take action and learn by experience.
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:12 AM
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The secret is to flirt from the beginning, as soon as you can start. The girl should know from the beginning "this guys is flirting with me"! There should be no doubts about that! The worst mistake that you can do is to cover your intention and give her the impression that you're there just for a chat. Naturals never hide their intentions. They are completely clear for the beginning and that's why they have all this success.
/r/seduction05/08/15 04:08 PM
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The best one is definitely "YOUR FEMALE FRIEND WILL HAVE AN EPIPHANY AND SUDDENLY REALIZE SHE’S IN LOVE WITH YOU." XD
/r/seduction03/08/15 07:49 PM
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