I’ll remember for the rest of my life the first time I had success through daygame! I got out of my job and I had to reach my friends to do some approaches (we were learning daygame together) and I saw this amazing girl walking towards me. Every time you see a girl so beautiful, your brain starts to work 100% to find an excuse to not approach her at all. The excuse I immediately found was “You’re going to meet your friends. You’ll start approaching when you’ll be with them. Now it’s too early!”

But somehow I approached her anyway. I stopped in front of her and I told her "Hey, I need to know you. You're damn cute!" and she loved the thing! We had a short interaction, something around 10 minutes and at the end I proposed to see her again for a coffee. We ended up having that coffee in the next days and we met a lot other times after that.

Well, if I would have listened to my mind, I wouldn’t have memory of all the time together and all the sex we had. I learnt that all the girls you let go cause of your anxiety, these are all opportunities you’re missing. You’ll never know what it’s going to happen if you don’t try!

And the other thing I learnt is that hot girls are actually the easiest ones! This cause hot girls usually fall under 2 categories: 1 - She's so hot that guys are afraid to approach her. In this case she's lonelier than other girls and you have less competition 2 - She's hot but she's surrounded by guys who want to fuck her. She's ok with flirting cause it happens to her all the time, so your approach will be normal for her.

In both cases you'll hardly have a bad feedback from her. Next time you’ll have an insecurity about approaching a girl, think about it.

Anyway, I’m gonna have some free live events in the next days about “how to overcome approach anxiety” and if you want to attend click here, and I’m gonna explain to you what I did to get rid of all my fears in the approach.

And let me know in the comments your experience. How was the first time you had success and what did you learn?