Last night couple of friends and i went to pancake parlour and played cards against humanity and generally had a sweet time. Whilst there I see this waitress I find attractive and surprisingly intriguing (like no other person I've seen in a while). We smiled at each other and glance at each other here and there throughout the night.

She takes the front desk as we get ready to leave and my cuz starts talking to her. I join in. She was cool and we clicked enough for me to make a move. I didn't. As we left I tell my friends that I thought she was gorgeous and my cuz said she only talked to her to get me talking to her. My other friends starts pushing me to go talk to her. My cousin joins in. At this point the whole idea becomes too much of a big deal and I freeze up where I stood. I get super anxious per usual and yet again blew a sweet chance to at least try and get a number.

We get back home and I'm all distraught and beating myself up on it I literally start running towards that pancake parlour, I think mainly to get that angst out (a couple pulled over to check if I was okay lmao god bless em). I got tired, it was a pretty stupid idea since its driving distance away I get back home and my friends are all like "if you buy us pancakes we'll go there anytime you want"

And that's just it. Call it oneitis I dont care I need to see this girl again. Even to find out of she has a boyfriend or her father is racist I need to know.

Like I know where she works and ideally I'd just wait there until she is there, but its sorta stalkerish and not entirely sure how to go about this. Understand that it has to be done tho and while I blew the best chance of doing it before I can't let myself miss out on this girl.

What do you think? How can I do this? Should I wait or just go asap? Clues help tips are welcome and although this post is lighthearted I really need helpful answers

Thanks for reading!

Tldr; (you would:) need advice on how to make a move on this waitress I met last night and didn't make a move on then when I really should've. I need to see her again tho but don't have enough social awareness to exactly come up with a non stalkerish solution or wait for her to appear on tinder. tinder sucks anyway.