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[–]palmerd21 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Approach like you would any other girl. Assuming you do approach girls...
[–]katalis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Knock his door and say hi and do a genuine smile. Be honest with yourself and with her (nothing shows more confidence than someone who is able to speak the truth). I (and I shall repeat myself, "I", what I would do, I'm not telling you what to do step by step) would say something like "Hey neighbor, I was thinking that it would be really nice to know better my next door neighbour so I came here to tell you if you'd like to hang out together tonight at... 8 more or less (setting up an actual time would be helpful)".
You are not asking directly (not needy), you are saying the truth and being honest, you had the balls to approach, it wouldn't be very awkward if you have the kind of relationship you have mentioned, I think it's pretty normal to know your neighbours, and setting up the date already means, subconsciously, that you don't mess around with Shit in a polite way and you have a busy agenda and that's when you can meet.
Try to use your own words. In my opinion, the most natural you are without using "pre-made techniques", the better.
If she says no, at least you will already have the answer and can keep going. If she says yes, great.
If you don't approach, you won't have rejection, but anything else either.
Good luck.
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[–]katalis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that could work. But I'd make sure to hang out half an hour at least before the movie so you develop a connection with her, that would help to make her stay after the movie and you could hang out more.
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[–]katalis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes! That's great. Keep it simple and be natural, don't force things and everything will be as okay as it can. But remember to make your intentions clear.
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[–]katalis 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeeeeey! That's great man. But remember, you are gonna go to watch a movie, escalation during the movie only happens on movies or if you already have something. Try to hang out before and/or after the movie for a drink or something.
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